3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get sex from LOTS of other girls.
2007-02-02 15:19:31 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
" i wanna see you every once in a while" is for me means lets be friends, and then if you ever change your mind about sex then we can do it, if you could still connect somehow without physical contact then thats great, unless he does not say that he wants sex and all then there is no problem, i think he still has feelings for you and this time he doesnt want to insist want he wants with you, just dont get tempted,be in a friendly state, who knows it might still be you and him in the future, dont close doors.just dont be tempted to do something youre not ready for
2007-02-02 15:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust, what does your gut instinct tell you. Trust yourself and the answers will come to you in time. Men are vague to say the least in communication. Every once in a while to one man may mean once a yr. to another every day. You have talked to him and spent time with him while you were going out. The rush thing is he is still male and has urges that obviously arise from your company, he respects your opinion on sexual relations with him and took you home. Time will tell. Be patient the answers will come. Good luck.
2007-02-02 23:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarding sex, I will tell you what I tell my daughter... "men always have sex on their mind. Whether the situation warrants those thoughts or not doesn't matter, the chance is always possible in their minds. Consequently, just be aware of that."
- In your case of course this general rule is true, however, it's also possible that after being out there for a year, he now sees what a treasure you are.
- good luck to you both.
2007-02-02 23:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, it seems like he's stinging you along. "I wanna see you every once in awhile" doesn't seem like he's looking for anything serious. He may just be checking in to see if you've changed your mind on the whole no sex thing.
2007-02-02 23:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by tata10-24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he is never going to have anything lasting with you.He just doesn't want to go to the movies by himself so he called you thinking you would go.Save your time for somebody who deserves it because this guy definitely doesn't.
2007-02-02 23:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him why after a year he is wanting to see you again. And is he actually having sex with other girls? i would keep my guard up thats forsure. Take care
2007-02-02 23:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's hoping you changed your mind about saving yourself from marriage. To him, it's a booty call.
2007-02-02 23:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good to know you're still saving yourself for marriage.
2007-02-02 23:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋