2day at skool my bff told me that her and my friend were going out. This was good because they totally liked each other. But 2nite she called me and told me that he tricked her. And when I say that i mean he asked her to go upstairs to go get something out of his locker. So they go and wait for everyone to leave. When they are finally alone he nudges her with his arm tries to push her into the wall and like starts to kiss her all on her face and what not. She was shcoked at first so she really couldn't do anything at first but push him away. Afterwards when she goes outside to her mom's car to go home,he talks to her mom like nothing happened. I tried to tell her that they should have broken it off and what not. She was really scared and now she feels like dirty or something? I tried to help now i need ya'lls' help. What should she do?
2007-02-02 15:17:18 · 5 answers · asked by johnsonterrica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S she kind of wants to get back with him but she is just to mad right now and so am I. She was going to call him too but was going to wait since she was too mad. Not only did he lie to her(going to his locker) but he tricked her (she was going to kiss him on the cheeck but he turned really quicky and kissed her) and harrassed her. And then he had the nerve to get mad and call her scary. WOW DUDE! I was just so shocked. ANd he was more expiereed then her *he is not a virgin) and he took her first kiss away from her in a very unreasonabel fashion. (by the way both are 16) so what should she do now? She really need sthis advice! thank youn :)
2007-02-02 15:23:20 · update #1
first she needs to tell him that she wasn't ready for that and for him to do that without her consent is disrespectful and she wants it to stop. then she needs to stay her distance form him because it sounds like he could possibly just want her for sex. and that can be dangerous especially for her. she needs to either completely quit seeing this boy or only see him when other people are around. sounds like he is not all there in the head.
2007-02-02 15:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mother right away, that's what we're here for. You can't handle everything by yourself, even as an adult. This guy will do what he did to your friend to some other girl and she may be an unfortunate victim of something we don't want to discuss. Trust me, people usually "practice" on other people (getting their nerve up, finding out ways to outsmart their victim, etc.) before they go out and commit heinous acts. For some other girls sake and even for that young man, tell somebody before its too late.
2007-02-02 23:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell her to confront him about it and definitely break it off. But if they still stay together then that's your friends' problem. However I recommend that you keep an eye on her and if something gets worse..you need to tell her mom.
2007-02-02 23:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should stay away from him. Either he was just messin with her or that is a sign of him doing somthing worse. Good Luck!
2007-02-02 23:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him! It isn't a very good sign.
2007-02-02 23:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋