How Do I Tell This girl that I love her?? This is hard :(?

Question

Whats up, this girl that I know and like is, well, very attractive. Very attractive. I have liked her since 3rd Grade (im in Junior High now)
And I need advice.
I want to tell her that I love her, I just dont know how to do so.
We are good friends, we go over to each others house a lot and play the PS2. And our parents are good freinds too, so I am hoping that she won't like freak out or something.
Because, the other day, one of my friends told this girl that he liked her, and she freakin ran away screamin (which I dont see why, there is this girl that likes me, but I think she is gross, but it still feels good to know you are attractive to someone).

So, basically, I want to let her know that I like her without freaking her out. If there are any girls out there, can you tell me what it is like to be asked out by a boy? Preferably, a gross boy?

~Thanks

Hmm....
It seems as if I shouldn't say that I LOVE her, but that she is a pretty or attractive girl......
Im getting it (sort of)

Answer 1

Always ask her to hang out. Whenever you're with her, be really flirty. Always hug her and ask her to cuddle, even when her friends are there, because if she likes you, her and her friends are going to talk about you. If you're flirty with her alone, this girl is going to tell her friends, and her friends will want to ask you if you like her. Even if her friends think you like her, don't stop.

Also, always tell her she looks good, especially if she asks, but even when she doesn't. Don't tell her that she's "hot", tell her that she's pretty, cute, gorgeous, or beautiful. Maybe sexy.

And "wrestle" her for things. If she takes something away from you, she wants you to get it back, but don't be too harsh. Remember that she's a girl.

And if you have a cell phone, text her, even if you're not supposed to.

Tell her you love her a lot. Out of nowhere, just say it. Especially if you're talking to her online/texting her. And if you are, spell it out. Don't say "i luv u" or **** like that, say "I love you", and maybe add a smiley face. : )

And, finally, don't leave it up to her to ask you out. Girls want guys to make the first move.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

Well let's see...being in junior high I would say that I wouldn't advise telling a girl that you "LOVE HER" that may just freak her out. That is a little young for getting into a relationship that heavy. I'd suggest letting her know you like her for a start. Maybe if you ask her if she ever thinks about having a boyfriend or if she likes boys..would be a good start. Some girls don't like boys til they get a little older. There is lots of time for all this and maybe your friends have girlfriends and you have this one you like. Maybe if you have a friend in common that has a boyfriend/girlfriend you could ask her what she thinks about them and if she likes anyone. I'd get an idea of what she is thinking about relationships and then if she is for it then maybe you can suggest a relationship with her.

Answer 3

it may be a little too soon for you to know that you love her. there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone. if this girl is as much of a friend as you say she is, then when you tell her you are interested she will understand....maybe she is secretely interested in you, too. if she runs out on you like she did the other guy, then she wasn't the friend you thought she was and is not worth wasting your time on. if she is a friend and doesn't feel the same way you do, she'll understand and still want to be friends.

Answer 4

don't do it-- you'll die---if you want to tell her anything--and say this like a friend way to her--tell her you think she's cool--or a laugh or great to hang out with-- and if you tell her she is beautiful--don't say "I think 7ou are sooooo beautiful--wow--I love you"

say something --like --"you know i was looking around the school the other day--and you know what=-- your a good looking girl"--and just leave it at--that--
she 's not stupid=--- she 'll understand --that you are hinting--but she'll keep hANGING WITH YOU-- COS YOU AIN'T CROSSED THE LINE INTO A DRIBBLING FOOL-you are still her friend--and if she's good looking--she'll know it--and play it--but if she likes you--she likes you --so keep cool with her-- -don't start saying i love you and all that gooey stuff-- keep cool--be her friend-- and just be honest --but as a friend-- that's my advice--once you tell her -as frIend she is good looking-- you can make it fun-- and slowly you'll see--if she is in to you--too-- BUT if you go the other way--unless you know she thinks you are a hunk and god and loves you more than anything --you will drop out of her life-

don't put her on the spot--that's not what friends do--be cool--be fun-- and step slowly--good luck anyway-- eventually--you'll do what you will do anyway--but thats my advice-- give the girl space--don't push her--or rip your heart out AND LOSE A FRIEND-CHEERS
good luck

Answer 5

For heaven's sake, don't tell her you "love her". That would freak out anyone. Ask her for a date or ask her if she's interested in anyone. Tell her you really like her or you like spending time wit her but leave the "love' for after you're in a relationship for a while.

Answer 6

You could tell her in an e-mail. I have never been asked out before. People think that I am too "weird"!

Answer 7

You just go up and tell her or tell a friend to her Good Luck BYE BYE

Answer 8

you seem pretty young...are you sure you love her?! bc love is a big step and esp. for someone of a young age. you shouldnt tell her if its not real...