what wOuld you do if sOme giRL flirts with YOUR guy??

Question

> she pretty much flirts with every guy in the caMpus!! i'm really on my last nerve now.. she knows that this guys loves me.. yEt she still holds him, touches him, punches him softy anD all those stuff... heLP!!!

Answer 1

Girl, don't get all amd at her, she doesn't owe you anything. If your boy is making you happy, then just let him know he's doing a good job. And fix her up with some psycho if you want to have some fun!

Answer 2

OK, this is pretty tricky since she's ur bf's friend... So you kind of have to be a little political... you have to be really sweet with your boyfriend and once after you guys have had a nice passionate sex session tell him about your feelings towards her and how it makes you feel... do tell him that you have been putting up with it because you love him and don't want to make a big deal out of things, but as you respect him he should respect you by letting this girl know that if she wants to remain his friend she should respect the fact that he's taken and stop the flirting.

Trust me, guys listen to you much better when you are in an intimate situation...

Answer 3

First, I would talk to your guy. Let him know how you feel and tell him that you don't feel comfortable with the way she is acting toward him. If he is allowing these things to happen, then ask him if he would talk to her and put a stop to it.
Second, I would talk to the girl. Tell her your concerns, but don't get overly angry or defensive. She is probably just trying to get a reaction out of you. If this doesn't work, you and your guy should ignore her. She will most likely get bored and find another victim.

Answer 4

I would be careful not to get mad at him so much (if you do) that could drive him away. But I would ask her to lunch or for coffee, then gently explain to her that it makes you feel uncomfortable and a little jelous with the way she acts around your man. And if it still continues I would talk to your boyfriend and explain the same thing to him, and tell him you would perfer it if they didn't hang out with one another, don't make him choose, just tell him if he really cares about how you feel that he will set this girl straight on how it's making you feel. Good luck!

Answer 5

quietly tell your bf that you dont want her to touch him. if he protests then tell him you dont like it. its not him you just dont like her touching him. hopefully he will listen and understand. if she continues then you should establish your territory. when she gets too close, look her in the eye and hug him. if she still tries to touch him, quietly tell her to step back. or else. she should get the message. but let her swing first. that will get sympathy for you and and you will have every right to kick her a s s! also you wont come off as the jealous girlfriend and he would appreciate you even more and her even less becaues she attacked you.

Answer 6

see jammy, i am not into realtionship, but still like to answer.
if u both love each other, then there is no way for jealousy to prevail.
still if she is a female friend, as u mentioned, and u dont like in being very physical with ur boyfriend, just go and tell her.
but if she is very close to ur boy friend, just tell him to inform her that u dont like such things.

Answer 7

Call her out by saying something like, thanks for the foreplay, I'll handle the rest. Or the last girl he dumped was the touchy feely type,(smile and walk away...with him on your arm).

Answer 8

Watch the guy. Then dump him if he doesn't do anything. No need fighting for someone who won't even fight for the relationship.

Answer 9

well is he really ur guy, if he is then you need to talk to him because the problem isent her its him because his allowing it to happen, but still that girl sounds like a ________.

Answer 10

tell her faack off ...this is her last chance bfore u punch her in the nose...