There is this girl at my high school. I like her. I've been thinking about asking her out and have decided that I might want to. I don't know how to ask her out though. What should I do. I am kind of confused. Could anyone please help me. I need a lot of help, especially from girls please, because then I know what to do and it would help me out a lot. Thank you.
2007-02-02 14:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by Confused1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I've decided that I might want to," you wrote. You know what that tells me? You haven't decided anything. You are confused, scared, and very worried that if you ask her out she will say no and you will be embarrassed. My advice to you? Don't ask her out until you are sure that it is worth being rejected for the reward of being accepted. DO NOT ask her out until you can handle being rejected. THEN you will give off the air of self-confidence that is very attractive to girls. I'm not suggesting that you act like a jerk. no way. Just don't ask her while you show that you are terrified. IF you do that, you will SURELY be rejected.
Make sense?
j
2007-02-02 15:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by poolshark21209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's my suggestion.
Do not be repetitive like all and just walk upto her and ask her out.
Be creative. Show her that you are unique and different.
Leave a rose on her locker door, if you know her locker number.
Attach a little note on the stem of the rose, saying that you want to be her boyfriend, but don't sign it. If you have any classes with her, when she walks into your class, give her another rose and then ask her out.
If you don't, wait till the end of the day and give the rose again, this time firmly asking her out.
2007-02-02 23:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends do u talk to her? if u do ..just say hey u wanna watch a movie this weekiend of something like that ..if u dont well u know valentines day is coming up u could send her on a scavenger hunt and lead her to roses where u ask her out
2007-02-04 14:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by NotCliche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try too be cool around . her now a girl does not usually notice if a guy likes her . her friends are the first people to notice before her. so really you want to ask her friends permission first like you know it is like meeting her parents.point going is make it ovious to her friends and they will kind of help you along
2007-02-02 23:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by ~**casandra**~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definetly ask her out because atleast you had the courage to say something...but i dont know how she would say no, that would be awfully rude. girls like it when a guy accually asks. DO IT!!!
2007-02-02 23:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by K@T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello valentines day is coming up..........you know the one day of the year you could write a note to someone asking them out and not seem like an idiot
2007-02-02 22:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a girl, go up to her complement her then talk about her hair and then ask her if she is free on saturday night! thats what my B/F did!
2007-02-02 23:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Zandra L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey, I'm going to the movies this weekend. Wanna come?"
2007-02-02 23:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋