Ok LAST JANUARY 1 night when hubby went down to the local small store phone rang it was a girl she ask if ronny was home and when i said no who is this she hung up on me immeditely.Well for months and months i questioned him about this and he said many many times he didnt know anything about the call.well after being questioned for 3 or 4 months 1 night he said "im all yours u have nothing to worry about"so i said what what i be worried about and he said "i dont know" my mom says he was just trying to reassure me.We have been happily married 16 yrs and he is a good man,great husband and i know he would never cheat on me.i totally believe cause i know he would never give another girl his number that would be a totally stupid then for anybody to do..Its still a real mystery who she was and how she got his number cause my name NOT his is in phone book,IM not in denial or being naive cause after 16 yrs of being married to this wonderful man i think i should know him by now to know by now.
2007-02-02 14:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He doesnt have no ex's
2007-02-02 15:12:34 · update #1
first of all pandora i dont "nag" him about this anymore and havent since like last summer and i was his first serious relationship so no he doesnt have any ex's
2007-02-02 15:43:29 · update #2
plus he has been at his job for 10 yrs and talks to everybody so they do know about his family life.
2007-02-02 15:46:33 · update #3
"He doesn't have no ex's" Well, I can tell you aren't very well educated...
So, darlin, lemmi break it down to you like this. Did that women call back?
yes/no
if no, then why in the hell are you still bothered by this?
Do you trust your husband?
yes/no
If you DO in fact trust your husband, you would ask him once, and if says "No, I do not know this women" then leave it at that.
Why do you nag him to death about this?
a:Because I am insecure
b:I want to control my man
c:I have nothing else better to do
d:I am a b*tch
e:all of the above.
She may have gotten his number from work and thought he was single. Maybe he doesn't talk to people, so no one knows about his family life.
Or, maybe he doesn't talk about you because you are mean, you nag him to death, and you really have no clue on how to treat your man. So get a clue, stop nagging and say you're sorry.
And btw..ALL men have "ex's" It is downright STUPID to think he has NEVER dated another woman...
2007-02-02 15:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you and I had this nagging feeling that you seem to have, I would get myself physically checked out and if all's well I would leave it alone. He may have given someone his number trying to front or be Mr. Suave, Mr. Single, Mr. Cool Daddy or whatever and the girl inadvertantly called his bluff. No sex or nothing, he's just rapping and running it like he's the man. Or, mabey it was what you hope would never happen. Guess what though? He's still at home, with you. I'm not condoning it but this one looks like you should just let it go. If another one comes up then we have a problem.
2007-02-02 15:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a lot of explanations for that one call. It was only one call. If you have been happy all these years and this one call has bothered you this much, it makes me wonder how really secure you are with your husband. Let it go and be happy hon, it really was most likely some dumb girl for work maybe who got fired or some stupid girl who wishes he was hers and trying to get you upset to cut him loose. Unless you want to hire an investigator on him and trust me if you do your marriage is already over. Then let it go and trust him. You yourself said you know him best. Has he done anything to you to deserve such spousal
betrail. Do you see that by questioning him about it all this time you are the one betraying your marriage. Be happy 16 years is a lot of love.
Tracylyn S
2007-02-02 15:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might have just been a coincidence. One time I got a call asking for "Sue", and I said "this is"...and after he started talking... I realized that I didn't know who in the heck it was. I often wonder if my guy picked up the phone, what would he have thought. I would just let it go, it was probably just a wrong number. Your hubby sounds like a keeper!
2007-02-02 15:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 thoughts if you do not mind. is it possible that it was a wrong number? I know I get phone calls for my x husband name, and it startles me as he has never lived with me at this number. As for the second I am glad to see you did not make it a trust issue and were able to put things in perspective, Also when we were kids we would look up names in the phone book and phone and ask for them , is the name listed.
2007-02-02 16:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont dwell on it any more. roughly the same thing happened to me 2 years ago. i couldnt let it go now im seperated and headed for a divorce. now that its too late i dont think anything happened
dont let this happen to you
2007-02-02 14:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by B1958 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey why should just one call bother u so much. having faith in each other is the basis for a good marraige. i don't have to say that since you yourself realize it. trust always pays off. so trust and be happy.
2007-02-02 15:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by reach_mv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you get along with his family? Maybe one of his family members gave his ex your number and she didn't want to leave her name.
2007-02-02 15:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let this one go but keep your eyes and ears open just in case.
2007-02-02 14:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relax and just let it go already.
2007-02-02 14:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋