Girls Only???

Question

Hi girls....I want you to take this question seriously
Who would you like to date and why:-
1. Social, Funny, Outgoing guys, with no clear goal in life
2. Smart guys, a bit shy, have some sense of humor, polite, respectful and have a goal in life

Number 1 is respectfull too.......

I am more towards 2 and never had a girlfriend....So I am just curious on how girls look at guys

Answer 1

When I was younger I would have def went for # 1 but to settle down with def #2

Answer 2

I would have to choose the latter of the two, but there are those who are shallow and prefer the former. A man can be pretty and extraverted, but in the end, if he cannot stimulate my mind, he is definitely not going to be stimulating my body. Being a social butterfly only goes so far. After the dazzlement is gone, there is nothing to maintain any real interest. Most intelligent women such as I prefer a man who is intelligent and can hold his end of a conversation as I believe most men prefer women who can do the same.


Also, I feel that the man who does not know where he stands and has no clue in what direction his life is headed, he is pretty pathetic. In my opinion, it makes the man look like he doesn't really care about himself which would make me think that he does not care enough about me to take care of himself. An attractive man is one that knows what he wants and sets out to get it. Even if he does not succeed at attaining a goal, at least he has made an attempt, and is still a winner in my book.

Hope this helps

Answer 3

I married a 2.

And we have been together for a long time.

You may not believe this, but I was outgoing and a bit shy; smart, and funny with a sense of humor; polite, respectful, and I had a goal for my life.

He is the best part of my life.

Hope this helps!

Answer 4

Number two I think

Done the Funny Outgoing with no goal in life and it is not a good thing

We all want to have fun but there comes a point in a relationship where you want to say this is serious now!! Grow up!!

So yeah number 2

Answer 5

1. Because I'm young and naive. I'd do anything for a guy that can make me laugh or a guy that's interested in the same things I'm in.

I probably wouldn't date 2. because he sounds too much like me. I'm smart. I'm way too shy. I'm also polite and respectful. But I'm also very funny and I don't have a goal in life.. yet.

Answer 6

ok i think #1 but at the same time #2 because i just want a guy who is not afraid to be himself and that are funny and like to have fun no matter what people think but if his shy that would be cool two because that way i know that hes not a show off, and if he has a goal in life that is awsome! i would like him to be polite but not to polite sometimes it gets anoying.

Answer 7

Well personally, i like guys who are true to themselves. Dont follow the crowd. I've liked extremely shy guys, and i've also liked what i like to call "the center of it all"...he loved attention going out and partying...basically the best thing and key for me is:
RESPECT
HONESTY
CONFIDENCE
at the age i date not everyone is going to know exactly what they want to do but some kind of goal on where to get started is a plus!! or atleast know where they want to end up!

Answer 8

Number # 2 is good

Answer 9

#2 no question who wants some who has no plan and will proubly put off his life goal until last minute and end up working at mcdonalds for the rest of his life.

Answer 10

definitely 2.no question about it. i just like people like that. probably cause I'm like that. but, funnily enough guys prefer to be my friends. I'm cool with that. most of the time. i couldn't stand a guy without a sense of humour!I'd probably fade away.i way prefer shy guys cause I'm very shy.& I'm not very good looking either. but hey. what you gonna do?lol