i like a girl who is working at the same place,
she's 4 years younger than me,
i'm 20
i started wooing her, at 1st it was all normal,
but as thing goes by it starts to be disasterous.
i started cooking barley, buying her snacks, and even drew a comic for her when she is down.
but her reaction to me was still very cold.
after 2 months of knowing her.
i give her a call, confess.
she told me not to waste time, get a better girl, she's not worth it , even if i try harder again she will not give me chance, and she told me she doesn't have the FEEL available. i told her it's alright, i will wait for u.
she was like, he's such a boring guy. every qn i asked she just, yeah , ya n etc.
i think theres a possibility that she fall for else.
but is there really a solution to my problem?
i need to win her heart over, advice?
how can i start to win her heart even when she start avoiding me?
troubled boy feeling so down. advice pls.
2007-02-02 14:45:15 · 13 answers · asked by continue waiting? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way you can force her to love you,just tell her that you love her and leave her alone,one day she is going to come back to you telling you that she loves you,be patient on that,she is still young and still crazy about other guys. She is still not ready for the relationship
2007-02-02 16:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by peedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could probably get her to go out with you, but you're setting yourself up for disaster since she isn't in a good place to be starting a relationship for whatever reason.
Also, if my math serves me, you are an adult and she isn't. If she were my daughter, I might cut your nuts off....
Wait two years. She'll be an adult then, and maybe she'll be ready for a relationship.
And quit trying so hard. Let her see that you are a person with interests and a life of your own, and that she is not the center of your universe and she can just ignore you like the earth ignores the moon.
2007-02-02 22:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel down! First of all, you are like way too old for her! It makes me think that you have low self-esteem and are afraid to go for girls closer to your age (atleast LEGAL!). I think you're creeping her out. You're almost stalking her. Please just give up on her! You need to concentrate on feeling good about yourself before even thinking about meeting girls! AND NO GIRL WOULD FIND COOKING BARLEY APPEALING, it kind reminds me of something Napoleon Dynamaite would do. IF SHE FLAT OUT TOLD YOU TO THAT SHE WON'T GIVE YOU A CHANCE, than why bother???? If you keep this up, you might be getting a call from your boss or worse, her parents or the police. You need to join some activites that interest you, that's a great way to meet girls. And don't always go for the hot girls. There are tons of average looking girls that are tons of fun and very interesting and furthermore, might be into you! BOTTOMS DOWN ADVICE, YOU MUST GIVE IT UP OR SEEK PSYCHOLOGICAL HELP BEFORE SHE FILES A RESTRAINING ORDER AND THEN YOU"LL BE KNOWN AS THE "CREEPY STALKER GUY" And have to move! KNOCK IT OFF!
2007-02-02 22:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by SHELTIELUVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi this is also a girl age is 16,so she is of my age,so dear i think l can give some advice,a girl always says i cant lov u but her heart is always soft speacially wen she is 16, tell her she is the most beautiful girl u ever sow and u ll allways lov her weather she lovs u or not and u wana see her happy and always remind her she is very speacial nobody else is speacial like her
i hope that ll work
may god bless u
2007-02-03 00:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by anika h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy. if u are 20, that makes her 16....which im pretty sure is illegal....under 18.
but if she told you she isnt interested in you....theres not much you can do to change her mind...unless you start being really nice to her, buy her some flowers, just hang out iwht her so she can really get to know you.
2007-02-02 22:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You drew a comic for her when she was down?....Maybe you should buy her a lollipop. Or take her somewhere and show her a basket of new born kittens.
You want to watch it, mate.
2007-02-02 23:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JAIL BAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She's still very immature at age 16, there's no heart there to be won I'm afraid. Just focus on your job, and as difficult as it will be let her go. Doesn't sound like she wants anything to do with you, at least she's being honest, I'm sorry......
2007-02-02 22:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? In the UK, 16 is legal. But in other places it may not be.
2007-02-02 22:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best guess is being your 20, her being 4 years younger she'd be 16...yeah..thats not legal I advise you to drop it
2007-02-02 22:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone. when a woman starts to ignore you just let it go. because if you try anything she might say your stalking her. just ignore her and find someone else who would love you for who you are. and if your lucky she might want you back. but i doubt it.
2007-02-02 22:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋