Okay, I really like this guy, and he told me he likes me, too. Then he just asked out another girl. I was sorta bummed, but I got over it. But, now, I found out that his girlfriend is cheating on him with 2 other guys!!!!!!!!!! Should I tell him? And, If he ever breaks up with her, should I try to ask him out???
2007-02-02 14:42:14 · 12 answers · asked by Katiee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on how you found out, Because if someone told you it may not be the truth, People sometimes just say things that aren't true but do what you feel is right.
2007-02-02 14:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♡♪♫☆♥♡♪♫☆ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly I dont think you should tell him anything.. when things like cheaters cheatin on a good man/women happen it will soon eventually come out in the open. I think you should be patient and be there for him when he needs someone to talk to about the situation. Almost like you will be that crying shoulder, except he probably wont be crying. But at least you will be there at the right place and right time when you two will realize that you may be meant for one another and bam you will be in a relationship with him. Let it flow like that dont try to jump into a relationship instantly after he just got out of one and please dont be the one to break his relationship up wit the other girl~ let him find out for his-self and just be there to pick up the pieces sort of speak....Good Luck~
2007-02-02 22:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by collins2004_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he asked the other girl out he is "just not that into you" so why go through all the trouble. Move on there are a lot of men out there!
2007-02-02 22:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by mishi408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you out then went out with another girl then you shouldn't date him. He probably isn't worth your time. But you should tell him that his girl is cheating on him. Don't be as mean as he was. Don't stoop to his level. Just let him know and that is it. Good Luck.
2007-02-02 22:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. but dont ask him out straight after.. it'll make it look like you were plotting something and he might get suspicious even if u didnt do anything.. just be his friend.. console him until he gets over the fact that his gf cheated on him and if its possible and there's a chance, TAKE it and ask him out but dont do it straight away.. =]
2007-02-02 22:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't find enough evidence to prove to him dat she's cheating on him, he might think u just want to break them up. i suggest u let him find out for himself but just make sure u're there for him as soon as he finds out n try to get his attention again but don't do it all too fast though. hope i've made enough sense to help.
2007-02-02 22:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. You have enough on your hands already with a guy who is a player.
2007-02-02 22:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Looks like a real mess to me.
2007-02-02 22:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Better cut him out of your life.
2007-02-02 23:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Traveller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to tell him, but if your plan is to tell him and then date him, he might think you ar a kniving jerk.
2007-02-02 22:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋