There is this boy. we are both 14. [im a girl] anyways. before i went out iwth him he was going out with this girl for about a year and a half. which i think is very long for such a young age. and well. when they were together they went pretty far. not all the way. head/fingerd. thigns like that. but i havn't done anyhting like that before. well i sort of think 14 isn't reallyan age for that but im not sure that what i want to know. because i feel like i have to live up to how she was. but its just i cant. im not her. but i don't know if im overreacting and its normal for this age to be doing thigns like that. it sounds likea weird question but i need an answer. because im getting called prude for not foing them with him but i need advice
2007-02-02 14:41:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow you sound like my best friend only big differece.Shes 14 and her boy is 18.Her mom lets her go to his house and everything.They have done everything and even had sex.She is ruining her life and I sugest that you not do that for a boy.Trust me, I had a boy friend who asked me to Hand job him and I turned away.It was the best thing I could have done!
2007-02-02 14:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, first of all, being forced to do something would make you sound like a tramp, don't you think? It's good that you have some good sense left in you to actually think about this. Don't do anything that you might regret in the future. Plus, peer pressure is hard to deal with, but once you say no, you'll feel great!!!!
2007-02-02 22:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, you are too young and that is something that is not cool at all! Just me, but you know what, don't feel that you have to fill the shoes of some other person. You are your own self and you need to do what you feel like doing. If you don't want to, no one can force. Besides, if he really likes you, then he will like you for who you are and not what you can do for him. Never feel compromised to do things that you don't want to. If that's all he want, let him go!
2007-02-02 22:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by narcissistic_punk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one should be calling you a prude. don't do it if you don't want to. you don't have to live up to no one. Do what you feel comfortable with even if that means nothing. and your right 14 is not the age to be doing things like that. stick to your morals. good luck .
2007-02-02 22:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this age if a guy is demanding like this and he has already gone through a relationship then my advice is stay away from him. or else you will one day find that he has used you up and thrown you away.
2007-02-02 22:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel
2007-02-02 22:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by yessy yes no 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋