LADIES!!! can i get a little help??

Question

i need some tips on flirting, if you can help a dude out, im really and i mean REALLY bad with the ladies so i could use some tips to gain canfidence cuz im pretty shy

Answer 1

ok sounds like u need some help. first thing to start out with it a good conversation. if u see a girl checkin u out and u think shes kinda cute, dont be afraid to go up and talk to her. and u REALLY need to avoid cheesy pick up lines, just start out by sayin excuse me miss, i was wonderin if i could have a moment of your time, my name is ____. and the conversation should go on from there. the best thing for u to do is to just be confident and not to be afraid to talk to girls cuz theres nothin sexier than a guy whos confident.

Answer 2

Well this is pretty vague here. Smiling. Well you have to find someone who shares common interests with you. If you ski go to the lodge and watch people and how they interact. Mostly be yourself don't try to impress a girl by acting the way someone else thinks you should. Girls like flowers, smells (aftershave, cologne) not plastered on. If you are walking in the park and see a girl who has looked at you and smiled and is available pick a flower from the ground and give to her. Be subtle not pushy though. Good luck and know all humans beings are great just because they are....

Answer 3

I can tell you right now that the best way to get a girls attention is to make her laugh. If she's out it's cause she wants to have a good time. So don't bring up a serious convo, it'll mean she actually has to think. And while thinking is not a bad thing, when you're out on the town you want to act, not think. But if you make her laugh (no matter how lame what you say is) you already started off by making her night that much better. Good luck.

Answer 4

i love to flirt but im always nervous i usually get sweaty palms so i wear a sweatshirt to hide my hands act casual no matter what happens show backbone because if u don't they'll tink ur a dork...What u say really depends on the person what always works with me is just saying nice shirt or shoes or something anything like that and smile they like it when they think that you feel comfortable because they do want to be comfortbale around u... GOOD LUCK!!!!!

Answer 5

Intelligence is hot. Trying to actually learn something about a girl and her interests besides just dropping a line works.

Answer 6

Just be yourself, have a great sense of humor, just be nice, kind, and complimentary, but only if what you are about to say is true. Smile at her, and kinda look away shyly. Good Luck!!!!

Answer 7

Ok. Just be yourself and don't be overly flirty. If you see a girl you like, just be yourself, go up to them and just say "Hi, My name is (your name),", let the conversation flow and everthing will fall into place!

Answer 8

thats just it. confidence. we see it. we like it. lol. if your funny you can make a girl do anything. 1st thing is compliment her..once not like 10 times just once. then let her know that you care, and you see no1 else. this is if u want like long term or just a one nighter. If its your friend you like thats harder..but idk. work on speaking. Its like your getting judged. wherever you go. act like you own the place.

Answer 9

compliment the girl, joke and laugh, make her feel special, play around (like touch her arm or grab her shoulders from behind), let her know you like her

Answer 10

Just be yourself...if it was meant to be it'll all work itself out....oh and some chicks think shy guys are hot........."~)