I laugh when people get hurt, I think its funny when stuff burns, I drink just to get drunk, I hate everyone, people suck, I'm always getting into trouble, and I cut and try to kill myslef, and I dont feel any remorse for anything I do. What do you people think I should do, besides going to Counciling, because thats a failure, I've tried it.
2007-02-02 14:08:29 · 9 answers · asked by joelerch1 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Either phsycotic depression or some other freaky mental disorder. I feel bad for ya.
2007-02-02 14:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Joey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that was not a failure, you just did not even try hard enough to make it work. You need to get your a*s into therapy and really try and get these things worked out, before you end up one of the many that are going to end up living in a nut house for rest of your life, or a veg, or even in prison. Cause you are not funny and neither are the things you think is funny. You are in serious need of good therapy, and if they have to they should just lock you up there for a while, until you start to respond to it, and make sure you are't just faking it. You know the things that you have written here is not funny, and you know that you should not really be laughing about it, or trying to harm yourself, and you know too, that counciling did not help, cause you did not want to be there in the first place. So get with it, and really give it a try, you are in charge of your life and you make it the way you want to, so why not amit that you have not tried to go the straight way, and actually try to work in your counciling, that is just an excuss, so you can go around and get away with stuff. You will find that one day that is not going to work ,and you are going to wish that you did get the help when you could of, and really worked on it, so before it is too late how about going and getting some help, and this time really working.
2007-02-02 14:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not that weird that you laugh when someone gets hurt. I know a few people that do that. Its not because they think its funny, its just the only way they can react to it. I would try counseling again. If you have thoughts of suicide, thats a MAJOR problem. Lifes too short. Dont make it any shorter. Enjoy your life while you can, and dont worry about ending it anytime soon. Maybe "people suck" because you dont have any social interactions with people frequently. YOUR a person too, and you probably dont suck. As for the getting in trouble part, just try to find better things to do. Good luck.
2007-02-02 14:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by smiley chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because counciling didn't work, keep trying. A lot of people don't understand you have 2 bodies. A physical one and a spiritual one. You have to feed them both. A lot of times when we know something is wrong, we just don't know what, it's our spiritual body starving. Do you believe in God? You are His child. He is there for you. He never leaves us...we leave Him. If you are telling the truth, you need more help than you can get here.
2007-02-02 14:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get back into counseling. It only failed, because you didn't give it a chance. It's not up to the counselor to work miracles, you have to work at changing. If you are really concerned with how you are behaving, then you will be willing to make an effort. If you don't, you will probably continue getting into trouble until you end up doing something that you actually do regret or end up in jail.
2007-02-02 14:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by KS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are sociopathic, or at least really angry about something. But I am no psychologist. If you are a teen... a certain amount of angst is normal. I was there once; cutting myself, thinking about suicide, substance abuse. The world and all of it's problems, all of your own problems as well, is pretty overwhelming for teenage minds. Though, that is probably of no comfort to you, for me to say that. Perhaps you even think me an arrogant twit, hehe. Let me put this another way...
If you really want to change your life you have to be willing to let go of many of the notions about life and self that you hold to be true. Often times people are emotionally attached to these things so it can be really hard. But obviously, whatever the notions, there are a number of them that cant be true, at least for you, otherwise you wouldnt find yourself in your predicament.
Often times in life, we go about our days oblivious of how we are choosing to live. I think you should look within at your value system, at those notions you hold about life and self and really try to reflect on what kind of life, holding those beleifs, has led you to live. This can be really hard to do, so the objective assistance of a well chosen professional can really help. It might take a few tries before you can find someone that works for you. But also be careful that it isnt just your ego, your fear of change that holds you back from really seeking/ recieving help.
It can take a few counselors or psychologists before you find one that works for you. Each of them have thier own beleifs about the human condition and that can effect the way they treat a patient.
However, if you dont deep down actually want to change, if you arent truly willing to step up to the challange of changing the thoughts that guide your life and emotions (it really is the hardest thing a person can do), then nothing and no one can help.
I really indulged in books when I was depressed. They gave me a break from my morbid reality. I read a lot of self help books as well that really helped me to change my life around, by changing my thoughts and notions about stuff. I was on anti-depressants for a while and they helped me to keep my head above water so to speak, but even then I had to teach myself how to swim (what a quaint metaphor). There was strokes I was using that just werent working, even though I would have liked to think they were and were hard to get out of the habit of doing. But with a heart of commitment to change, I did alot of it and became able to function in society again, lol. Over time of course.
To really change, for me anyway. I had to be introspective and totally willing to dissolve my attachments to notions I had about life and self. This allowed me to free my mind up enough to view my life and self in a whole new way...a more functional way.
I hope that you can give it a chance and find a good proffessional to help you do this, or even a good book or two.
Good Luck
2007-02-02 14:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have what we refer to as the "Immature American Teenager" or IAT for short. You condition will worsens if you're in college and throughout your 20s. I recommend a daily dose of a reality check and a lot of overseas travel. A serious girlfriend wouldn't hurt. Good luck.
2007-02-02 14:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Twin Peak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, medication would be a start.
2007-02-02 14:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should know how to "love".
2007-02-02 14:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋