My brother is 6 years older than me and we have nothing in common and he acts like he hates me. I really want to get along with him.
2007-02-02 14:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by Skeeder B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell him how he hurts your feelings, he'll probably stop then
2007-02-02 14:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by snowangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! My brother is two years older than me and he is so rude! Every time I try to talk to him he just yells at me. And when I try to be nice to him what does he do? He yells at me! But what I really think you should do is try to talk to him and ask him why you can't just be nice to each other. Tell him that you really love him and if he was nice enough then he'd say it too. And try some of the stuff he likes. Like maybe he likes a certain kind of music or game. You never know if you don't try. You might actually have something in common!!!
2007-02-02 14:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by PrettieLeah12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a little sister who is 4 years younger then me. i used to be a major jerk to her and i feel bad for it. now, im 21 and shes 17 and we get along great. i know it sucks going through what youre going through, but things will end up ok. growing up will change that and you two will realize that siblings are pretty much the only people you can count on being there for the rest of your life. so just keep being nice to him, and eventually thinks will end up ok. i know you dont want to just hear people tell you to 'wait' but time is pretty much the only thing that will make your brother grow up. good luck with everything, you're doing the right thing by trying to be nice to him even if he's an asshole.
2007-02-02 14:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by somedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really want to get along with him just be really nice, as nice as you can be and hopefully he'll be a good brother and be nice back. If that does not work sit down and talk to your brother about the situation and express your feelings to him and i promise you if you do it in a nice calm way he will understand! Just hang in there!!!!.
Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-02 14:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 6 years older than my brother to and we always fight and argue, i just think is something all siblings do . But when he gats older he may probaly stop, but for now just try to be kind and fun with him
2007-02-02 16:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some older siblings are just mean like that. Your best bet is to leave him alone. In time (when your both grown) you will probably get along.
2007-02-02 14:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push your relationship with him -- but be nice to him in your ordinary contacts. He's probably just so self-centred at this point that he won't respond positively, but in a year or two your efforts will pay off if you keep them up.
2007-02-02 14:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u r younger than him u should always listening n obeying him.u r always loser if u fight with him cos of 6 yr difference.
2007-02-02 14:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i my self is 5 years older than my sis. we've had our arguments (sometimes it w'd get pretty bad) but we're kool we dont argue like before.
he needs to chill out.
he doesn't hate u older sibilings are just like that. jut dont be around when he is, see how he reacts
2007-02-02 14:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by pulse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can tell him or your parents. Get him something that he really wants. Or just ignore him and get on with your life. nobody can say that you didn't try.
2007-02-02 15:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋