In October, this guy asked me to homecoming. We had been talking a lot, and he flirted with me a lot too. I said I don't know, and he ended up going out with someone else. During this time he still like talked and flirted with me. Then he broke up with his girlfriend, who he really liked, and it was tramautizing for him.
After that, I haven't talked to him. Its like our connection disappeared.
What happened?
What does he think?
What is my problem?
2007-02-02 13:58:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention, i was going to say yes and go with him to the dance but then i heard he was going with someone else. i was heartbroken and i liked him a lot!!! even when he was going out with his girlfriend lol. that's why i was so upset when he stopped talking to me.
2007-02-02 13:59:32 · update #1
Next time join the train while its at the station.
2007-02-02 14:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys are so confusing because they have a lot of the emotional problems that girls have but without the drama. They get all "twitterpated" when they have to ask a girl that they like out and when they feel rejected the get the same rejected feeling that you and I do. How would you have felt if you asked this guy to a dance and he said that he didn't know? It would have hurt. I don't know about you, maybe I'm more shallow, but I would have struck back and asked someone else out just to get him. And for all you know his relationship started as a jealously attempt - and it worked.
If you still have feelings for him, which it sounds like you do, then go for it. Normally people give the "don't come on strong" advice but I think it calls for it this time. I'd go up to him and tell him how you felt. Tell him that you were interested in him when he asked you to homecoming but you were nervous, that it took you aback and you needed some time. Tell him that it hurt when he asked someone else to the dance. Let him know that instead of of a cold broken heart that would have hurt but been able to heal he drug it out with his flirting and kindness the whole time he had a girlfriend and now that it's over you don't know where things stand.
Let him know exactly how you feel and where you stand WITHOUT SOUNDING DESPERATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The very worst thing that could happen is that he says he's not interested romantically. And it'll hurt but you'll finally move on.
They say girls are hard to read but guys are worse, and they don't ever talk. You can get a girl to talk about anything! Good luck. And if you ever need a date to a dance again I have a GORGEOUS brother.
2007-02-02 14:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by flutterby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks you dont like him cause u never answered about the homecoming. i kno this is sort of hard to do, but say "i want to go to homecoming with you, if u still want" u dont have to say it in person. say it online or something, itll be easier. i think he still likes u, but he's upset that u didnt answer him bout the homecoming.
2007-02-02 14:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by blackx4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 08:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think that you don't wanna talk to him, or he may be thinking he may have messed up with you when he went out with the other girl.
2007-02-02 14:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by kaspa_da_ghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me why u didnt go with him. talk about his feelings right now...not yours! just be a good friend for him, thats all he needs right now......then, slowly start flirting again.
2007-02-02 14:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by hello. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he feels like you don't like him. He advanced, and a "I don't know" is just like a hell no to a guy. Talk to him. Its the only way.
2007-02-02 14:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk,don't go with him anymore,be aware!
2007-02-02 14:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋