her number in his phone but he put her number under a guys name i was so furious how could he do that he says he wants to be with me and loves me but i'm so angry and why did he tell her that his brother had a baby its none of her business he didnt have to say anything i feel so betrayed and lied too...should i be?
2007-02-02 13:55:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact he went behind your back and called her would make me mad too. Also putting her name under a guys name that would cause me to seriously question his motives.
2007-02-02 13:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. It sounds like you are slightly controlling or paranoid, but as long as he is just being friends with his ex there is nothing wrong. Mature people can understand that some relationships just don't work out romantically, but people may still care for each other in a platonic way. As for him telling her about his brother having a baby, no it's not "her business" but that is something significant in his life that he wanted to share. When my brother had his first baby I told anyone who would listen.
2007-02-02 14:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by akivi73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sneaky. Not a good thing. Talk to him. Let him know that the dishonesty and faking the name in his phone is disrespectable to you and you deserve more consideration than that. It is unacceptable and he needs to explain himself. If he has an interest in her still, he needs to be man enough to come clean to your face. You need to know where things stand so you can play your cards knowing the facts. How could he do this? It sounds like he's not all that honest of a person. You can't change that. I wouldn't expect him to change how he is so you have to decide if you can live with it or not. Tough decision but use your head and not your heart. Your head will keep your heart safe!
2007-02-02 14:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you have every right to feel betrayed and lied too. What's worse is he knew what he was doing was wrong or he would not have tried to hide it by putting her number under a guys name.
2007-02-02 13:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by evergoth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-10-24 10:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think about, if you do the wrong thing and later find out YOU were the one wrong you are going to regret it.
get your boy friend to sit down and have a talk with him.
tell him to tell the truth about everything and DON'T LOSE YOUR TEMPER, if he says something like " i like her, and i want to break up with you" or something then except it and leave him alone, later if he loses his girlfriend he will miss you but he will realize you don't give a care of what he thinks or what is going on in his life, then he will feel the regret. but if he tells you something else explaining the reason why he had hid all those things from you and it makes sense then give him another chance maybe he was telling the truth. it's never too late to break up with him. :) good luck
2007-02-02 14:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is not being very trust worthy!!
Especially the sly way he hid it in his phone under a guy name,but at the same time you should not snoop into his phone etc unless he has been acting like he was cheating
2007-02-02 14:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably put her number under a different name, cause he didn't want you to freak out if you saw her name in his phone, even if he only had it in there innocently. And it's fine to still be friends with your ex's, as long as your just friends.
2007-02-02 14:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he went to the extent to hide this girls number under a guys name, he must really not want you to know he still has it. Id be concerned if I were you but dont make any assumptions without knowing ALL the facts.....
2007-02-02 13:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by BM33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try confronting him first. Most guys are afraid that their gf will get jealous. Try to talk to him and and make him more open minded to you. You can be mad at him later on if he stills do it. Give him a chance to explain this time.
2007-02-02 14:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋