ok,here it is i met this girl and we just liked each other so i asked her to the movies we went and had a good time..she is 14 and i am 17...a couple of days later i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yeah.. i like her alot but a couple of days ago she said we should just be friends(after 12 days togother)... and after 19 hours and 26 minutes she said it was a mistake and that she wants to be togother again...i am her first boyfriend..the problem is i am not really sure that she cares about me like i do about her,it really hurt when she said that she just wanted to be friends...and i am thinking that she wanted to get back togother because of other peoples advice...how can i know if she really diggs me? p.s. we talk on the phone for a couple of hours a day and sometimes it gets a lil stale is that normal??
2007-02-02 13:54:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is very normal. if you are her first bf, then the girl just feels a little shy. to tell if she really likes you, see if you can make her laugh when no one else can, try to give her some nice things. if she really likes you, she will thank you a lot and buy you something too, or she will feel guilty of leading you on, and tell you. it always works. or so i've told
2007-02-02 14:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the term "jail bait"? She is only 14, she doesn't know what she wants, there are certainly many 17 year olds around. I'm sure her parents would also disapprove, just move on, she doesn't care, I'm sorry to say. I know that's easier said than done, but in the long run, you will be happier. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-02 22:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! I'm telling you right now! You can't be serious with a 14 y/o.
You can't, you can't, you can't! Keep in touch with her, have fun with her, blah blah blah. But do not expect "serious" with a 14 y/o girl. Meanwhile, while you're amusing her (and you are), keep to young ladies your own age. Your mind will rest easier.
I'm not saying you're being a bad young man, I'm just saying that 14 y/o girls are smart and cunning, but they are in a very wishy-washy way. You don't need wishy-washy. Too much trouble.
2007-02-02 22:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by stray cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she might be a lil bit confused about what to do. ask her directly if she likes u or not
2007-02-02 21:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by uknowwhoiam68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋