i really like this guy, and ive known him 4 like 3 yrs, were not like best friends or anything but i really like him, i flirt with him all the time in class, and he always flirts back, but i dont know how to tell him that i like him, im not for sure if he likes me more than a friend though because he hangs around with all these super cute girls, and im not "hott" or anything, im average, but i think he's perfect! we have everything in common, and jokingly i even spank him and everything in school, please help me!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-02 13:47:02 · 11 answers · asked by courtney 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My turn to help...! :) well talk to him..and tell him that you like him alot...well if you are shy or your afraid that he would say something that will hurt you! send him an email and tell him how you feel and if he replys or talks to you the next day at school and he likes you, then heres your first step to go on then every thing will be easy, just tell him how you feel..trust me if he likes you he will tell you how hee feels.
good luck
2007-02-04 06:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by hot_kissmwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet other men.
This is what happens...
You meet a guy,he happens to say something nice(in your case flirt) and you go home,and you think about it.Now after a period of 3 years it all builds up,you replay the moments you had together,what you felt,what was said,the images all roll through your mind.
Next thing you know(the nail in your coffin)is you start saying his name all the time,asking your friends about him.If your a real goof you even sing about him in the shower.
This is the pattern for falling in love.You did it to yourself You think he's perfect cause your seeing through the eyes of someone who's been totally swept away.
I've been there before,trust me its no fun.Infatuation is a bad thing that hurts.Once you realize this,and meet other guys or once he breaks your heart life will get better.
In this type of situation I doubt he has the same feelings for you...sad to say.He sounds like a playa
2007-02-02 21:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by nerve34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get the guts to ask him out or you could graduadly get into a conversation like tell him you and a couple friends are going out for movies and u wanna come or on Valentines day give him a gift IT will make him feel special
2007-02-02 21:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh. Ask him out on a casual date or something. Guys generally do not get subtle hints and stuff like that. Shoot, some guys don't even know the difference between "hanging out" and a date. Ask him out to something non-threatening (especially if you think he isn't the type that wants the girl to ask him out) and if he goes and you had a good time, maybe ask to do something a little "bigger" the second time.
2007-02-02 21:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably already knows that you like him. Just be yourself and see if he wants to hang out and if he says yeah then make a move when your alone and if he responds back then he feels the same way.
2007-02-02 21:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by kaspa_da_ghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going on. Touch him more playfully. But don't keep givin attention. If he misses u, he'll like u even more. Let him make the move u desire, not u
2007-02-02 21:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Somebody S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him for few days and see how he reacts....if he gives u his what-is-wrong-with-u look then go ahead and tell him ur true feelings. Good LUCK!
2007-02-03 21:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Chocogal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to fool around with him and see if he comes to find you.....well frank speaking he will in my opinon as l have told this to many of my friends!!!try it out you will get what you deserve GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-02 21:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jacky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...he sounds gay to me.
"Not that there's anything wrong with that" - Jerry Seinfeld.
2007-02-02 21:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by =42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say your feelings
2007-02-02 21:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by jayanthi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋