Me and my Boyfriend have been going out for about 2 years. I'm still a virgin but I'm not sure about him. I don't know how to have sex. How do I get him to want to? How do you start? How does it go and how does it end? I really need to know cause my mom won't tell me. Plz help. Thx
2007-02-02 13:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by Dog-Bear Cub 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm....?
2007-02-02 13:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's o.k. that you have had a boyfriend for 2 years, but where in the rule book does it say you have to have sex? What you still have is so rare these days, have you ever considered waiting until you are married? I don't know how young you are, but do you really want to worry about getting pregnant or all the diseases out there? Just because everyone else is "doing it" doesn't mean you have to. Stay strong to yourself, wait until you are older and just enjoy being with each other. Once you cross the line, there is no turning back. Good Luck!!
2007-02-02 21:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound unsure and that means that you shouldn't do it. I'm 21 and I'm still a virgin who's saving sex for marriage. Trust me, you'll save yourself A LOT of heartache by saving sex for marriage or until you're older and in a very serious relationship with a man you really love. You said you're unsure about this guy you're dating, so that is a HUGE red flag telling you to not sleep with him. He waited for 2 years, I'm sure he can wait longer and if he can't then tell him to get lost. All I know is that once you have sex, nothing is ever really the same. You'll move from one guy to the next and after every relationship ends, you'll feel empty and really hurt, you'll even feel used. Keep your virginity, I've seen too many of my friends cry and regret having sex. The ultimate test to see if a guy truly loves you is if he can wait for sex, if he waits then he does, but if he leaves soon then he just wanted to get laid.
I know you may be curious and really wanna do it but after 2 minutes of fun, your life will be changed forever.Do the right thing, I think your heart knows what that is:)
2007-02-02 21:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by Hottie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you're going to have sex, visit a sex center like Planned Parenthood, and get birth control pills. You don't want to get pregnant during high-school and especially not from your first time(you can get pregnant any and every time you have sex) Then purchase condoms. If your going to have sex, you have to be extemely confident and assertive and tell your boyfriend "no condom, no sex". He could have been with other girls and you don't want to get STDs. 1/4 teens have a STD so if you sleep with 4 people unprotected, your definitely going to get infected. Secondly make sure you really love him. Does he respect you? Does he listen to you? Would he commit to you if you got pregnant? Will he be mature about it? Are you ready to change your relationship forever? Thirdly, make out and take off your clothes. Direct him to put on a condom or put it on him(open package, unroll the condom and slide it up his penis making sure there is a couple inches of wide plastic at the top). Then resume making out. He will slide his penis between your legs. The first time will hurt a lot! Everytime will be painful for you but will be less painful after each time. He will ejaculate within a couple of minutes. When he ejaculates, he must pull his penis out of your vagina. This is crucial. Absolutely important! Go wash up and flush the condom down a toiler-it is now a Biohazard! Come back to bed, snuggle or spoon(your stomach rests against his back and you take breaths and try and syncronize your breaths), fall asleep.
2007-02-02 21:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by markbigmanabell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss lady I'm gonna put it to you like this....the easiest way to learn how to have sex is to watch a porno. You have the axcess to hundred's upon hundred's of sex sites on the internet. Now coming from a guy it doesn't take much to get him into the idea of having sex. Ask him what is it about you that turns him on. Or just walk up to him and tongue him down. I don't know what guy wouldn't be ready to go after that.
Now as fas as you being a virgin is concerned. Its gonna hurt the first time, you may even see a little blood tat first , but its normal. Ever heard the phrase "Poppin the Cherry". Take it nice and slow get used to it. And remember you control how you want it to go. Tell him how you like it and go from there. You know when your doin it right because you may feel a little pain..but you wouldn't wanna stop.
Happy Humpin...
2007-02-02 21:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by romantic_pleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you dont know the answer to these questions yourself, then your too young to have sex. and if u dont know your boyfriends sexual history thats a DEFINATE DONT DO IT sign to me. when the time is right, then it will just happen. but if u do decide to have it now.. dont be stupid, use a condom.PROPERLY!
2007-02-02 21:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by kute_regina_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u in a rush for it. ask a teen who bout to have a baby theyll help u out =]
2007-02-04 18:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by MiZZ. AL3XiS "YOU KNOW" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, its a sin thats called committing adultery which is having sex b4 marriage
2007-02-02 21:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by BrownBone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you were ready to have sex you wouldn't be asking these questions...talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels
2007-02-02 21:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by Princess1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-02 21:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Emily W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋