making out involves tongue. Slowly put your lips on hers, and gently kiss her. Her mouth will begin to open up a little and you will feel her tongue entering your mouth. Don't be nervous, and it sounds gross, but I promise you will enjoy it.
Good Luck
2007-02-02 13:40:15
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answered by cutegirl 3
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Look. What you want to do is easy. first, if you think you trust her and she is really nice tell her you are prude. That means you have never made out. She will help you in what to do. If you dont want to do that then you should just take it slow and go at it. Every one does it different. Some girls really like it when you stick you toungue in there mouth. And trust me you will to. But some girls find it offensive. When the time comes you will know what to do. just go with the flow. Start out just kissing. Then tilt your head and get comfortable. Then if you want to start jamming your tongue in there. But most of all have fun.
2007-02-06 16:51:03
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answered by Taylor S 1
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There isn't really a correct way to kiss. but for first time kissers, here's what ya do. IF you really feel connected to this person, then tounge locking is ok. but if you just met a couple days ago, you should just start with a regular kiss. who knows? a regular kiss can turn into something different! but don't go ahead of yourself.
2007-02-02 21:39:56
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answered by Anonymous
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If you dont know how to makeout, then WHY did you ask her to come over and do it? You should have just waited for it to happen naturally! How unromantic..how stressful..but ok, I'll help I guess.
From every guy I've kissed, they say I'm an amazing kisser so listen to me lol.
Start out slow, like hug her and let it linger and turn into cuddling - its always nice first; or just hold her, to reassure her, and start to kiss her neck or shoulder or something, then continue up her neck to her lips if you choose. Making out is about making the other person feel good but yourself too, dont do anything youre not into.
A few basic rules that make it more fun/enjoyable.
1) Dont go too fast, the joy will wear off quickly.
2) If you choose to use tongue (which is my favy) then DO NOT run it all over inside her mouth and dont open your mouth too wide and let your saliva get all over her -- making out is supposed to be fun, she shouldnt need to bring a towel with her. Just gently nudge it against her lips after you just normally kiss her a few times and lightly and softly massage it against hers and let it explore SLIGHTLY! Again, not everywhere please, she doesnt want someones nasty spit all over her.
3) Keep your eyes closed, its not polite to stare! Theres nothing I HATE more than a guy making out with his eyes open, its somewhat creepy and a big turn off. You dont want someone staring at you when youre trying to make out with them and be romantic and sensual.
4) Know your limits. Dont rush, and dont push or pressure her into anything, it makes her uncomfortable, she'll regret it later, and if she wanted she could get you into some serious trouble for that. Also, since youve never done this before I'm guessing your not that old so dont try to have sex with her.
5) Sound. Not everyone is completely silent while kissing, but to avoid the clicking noises that sometimes happen, you can make little moans and groans but do it quietly - you dont wanna let everyone know what youre doing or scare someone or ruin the moment.
6) Touch - Dont let your hands just lay there, wrap your arms around her, run her hands through her hair, GENTLY! **DONT PULL HER HAIR OUT OR MESS IT UP COMPLETELY** You can rub her thigh, and if you think she wants you to, you can rub her chest or inner thigh, or other places......
7) Know what NO means. If she moves your hand away from someplace or scoots away, move your hand back to its origional position. Run her fingertips up her spine and over her back, it'll give her chills and excite her.
8) Make it interesting. You can trace her lips with the tip of your tongue, softly bite on her tongue without hurting her, nip slightly at her lip, neck, or shoulder.
This may sound complicated and overwhelming, but its really not that hard. Another plus of keeping your eyes closed: When one sense isnt being used, the others become stronger. With no sight, you can concentrate more on her body language and touch. This will tell you what to do, and it will feel natural - the way it should be.
I'm not sure what else to put, but if you have any questions/comments/concerns, you can IM me or email me.
2007-02-02 21:57:24
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answered by Katey 4
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There is no guideline to making out .If you are really into this girl i will come naturally, but if you force it it will not be what you imagined it to be .having you first kiss is like having sex for the first time it should be with hopefully someone you marry, but it should be special and passionate kissing should be for that special person and only for them .And if you feel that this isn't the time or she is not the one,it's okay tell her.Never feel sorry for the decisions you make and don't do things because you feel like you're under pressure.I hope that i have helped you with your decision .
2007-02-02 21:50:14
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answered by TRUTH 3
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Go up to her a tell her a nice complement. Say she has the most prettyest eyes in the world. Hold her and slowly move in for the kiss. First, kiss her on the lips quickly. Then go at it again longer and bring it up into a wet kiss. Make her feel special.
2007-02-02 21:38:22
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answered by Lil bro 2
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ok really it just whatever you both feel comfortable doing
it is tongue kissing thats the best part of it
and when you start to kissing advanstarly you both will start to upon your mouth then stick your toung in her mouth very slow then your toung will rub agaist each other's then you will find out the rest later
2007-02-02 22:00:41
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answered by Anonymous
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making out somewhat revolves around kissing each other, you can use tongue or no tongue, which ever you feel more relaxed with though after a while you find which you like better. you dont have to be doing this all the time though. explore different things with each other, let her take control at times and see if you can teach each other different things.
2007-02-02 21:45:19
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answered by bluetinkerbell 3
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dont become so touchy on this first date. a chat and a couple of drinks would suffice, just make her feel as if she was at home, just as comfy and fun, don't start things out so fast, just keep it nice and slow moving.
2007-02-02 21:40:10
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answered by Soaring 4
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You'll figure it out. Sheesh, that's half the fun. You're only 28 once.
2007-02-02 21:38:48
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answered by Anonymous
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