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I dated someone from my workplace 2 years ago. After we broke up I was constantly worried he would start dating one of the other girls sitting next to my cubicle that I worked with on a daily basis. For years after the breakup I had to put up with the hurt of seeing him flirt with the girl sitting next to me at work. I finally left the company so don't have to deal with it anymore but it was a nightmare. It was too hurtful the close proximity of him flirting with someone that worked right next to me that I had to see on a daily basis. Work is a great place to meet guys. How could I still date guys at work in the future but avoid this situation (the possibility that he will date someone I work with on a daily basis after the break up)? It's hard enough going through a breakup. Imagine if the love of your life started dating or got married to your co-worker sitting next to you?

2007-02-02 13:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i actually dated men from my work two separate times. one decided to cheat on me with a girl in another department. there are a lot of men in the workplace looking for dates. not a good idea. the other one i dated was ok until we broke up...then it was very awkward.
also, dating at work makes the two of you a hot topic of conversation for everyone at work! you do not want that drama. people like to talk. and by dating someone at work, it gives them something to talk about.

i am now dating a guy who does not work with me. it is wonderful. no drama and my coworkers have nothing to talk about. the funny thing is that i realized that some people were just talking to me so they could get the dirt on my relationship. now that i am not dating anyone at work, those same people kind of ignore me. hmm.

2007-02-02 13:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0 0

It all depends on the guy that you want to date. I have never dated anyone at work. I have been at my job for 20 yrs and just never have met anyone that I want to date. I have seen people dated and break up and had a hard time afterwards. I also, seen people get married too. It is all up to you on how you handle a break up or end up getting married! Good luck!

2007-02-02 21:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think dating at your workplace isn't a good idea becasue it can get in the way of your work and bad consequences could come from it. If you feel you have to then go ahead. Just not recommended.

2007-02-04 15:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by ☺collia☺ PaRtY LiKe tInKeRbElL 3 · 0 0

Never you mess up on the street you walk by every day. Its a proverb. It will smell all the time when you pass by. Romance at work place is a bad thing. I even banned my workers from doing that. Although its hash. It spoils your working ability, your mood at work depends on your private moods outside work, its just countless, and also what you just explained.

2007-02-02 21:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0 0

I think you have answered your own question.

2007-02-02 21:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly45 2 · 0 0

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