I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. And just last week his step dad confronted me and said he does not want to see me around anymore. When other people are in the house, he doesn't acknowledge my existance. But when I am there alone, he'll stand in the doorway to the room I'm in and just stand there. Or he'll just walk in when I have the door shut (when I have door shut, it means I'm doing school work, I've told him this) and tell me to get out. And he doesn't even talk to me nicely, he acts as if I am not a person. What should I do? This just recently started, and I'm confused why it is happening. When I'm at their house, I'm usually just doing school work, so I don't bother anybody.
2007-02-02 13:32:17 · 7 answers · asked by ummei22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My boyfriend knows, but doesn't really understand why he was saying this. He really just wants everyone to get along.
And I go there because they have a fast internet connection. I have dial up at my house, and I have an online class durning the day so I go there when the teacher is on to discuss the class.
2007-02-02 13:41:59 · update #1
Ok, you need to confront your bf's dad. I'd ask him why he doesn't want you around anymore. He has to have a reason. People don't just randomly tell you to go away. Also, when he is just standing at the doorway staring at you, you need to say something because he is acting creepy. Ask him what he wants. Tell him to leave you alone. Just stand up for yourself. It doesn't matter if it is his house, you still have the right to stand up for yourself.
Overall, I think you need to stay out of that house, and stay away from that man. He could seriously hurt you, and it seems like he really wants to
BTW, once you stand up to him, you will be surprised by how much he will begin to respect you and treat you like a person. It will be tough at first (you 2 will probably have an argument), but he will respect you for it....I know from experience
2007-02-02 14:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even bother to go to a home where you are treated like this. He sounds weird to me.
2007-02-02 21:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you have it hard. you should ask him (the step dad) your self why he dose not want you around your BF? and if it is something you did, then you should try to fix it. Or you can go to your BF and ask him why his step dad don't want you around.
2007-02-02 21:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try to talk to your boyfriend and ask him to find out why his father is treating you like that...or sit down and talk to his father one on one....
2007-02-02 23:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you boyfriend about his stuff.
2007-02-02 21:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur boyfriend, silly! he wiuldn't liket that his dad is treating his girl like this! just tell him about it, and ask if ur bf's dad has anything agenst u or wut.
2007-02-02 21:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww.
2007-02-02 21:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋