This is a serious question.
Im not just trying to be "unappropriate"
I have a best friend who is a guy were not dating actually hes my ex, i guess you could say were friends with benefits. Weve had sex and done pretty much everything except him "eating me out". He wants to really bad but i just dont understand why !!! Does it give him pleasure ? Im not comfortable with it, Ive never wated to do it and i really think I never will want to, its disgusting.
He thinks i just dont want to do it with him, hes always saying "bla bla your 15 and youve done all this stuff with people why wont you just do this little thing with me ?" lol its not him I JUST DONT LIKE IT.
Whats so special about it ?
2007-02-02 13:15:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys really enjoy the response they get from women when they are responsible for giving her pleasure. It is both an ego boost and a huge turn on. If a guy knows what he is doing, oral sex can be extremely pleasurable for a woman. Unfortunately, if you are not relaxed enough to enjoy it, or consider it somehow taboo, he is not going to get the response he wants from you. He shouldn't pressure you into doing it if you aren't comfortable with it. If he wants it so badly, he should find another girl to do it with. Perhaps he would get your point if you started to harrass him about letting you shove a giant rubber fist into his backside sometime. "Come on, why won't you do this one little thing for me?" Give him a taste of his own pushy medicine, and he might just stop being so persistent about it.
2007-02-02 13:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to do it because it gives him a little power over you. it gives him a little power because most women enjoy it, some beg for it. In general it brings about orgasm, which men love to feel responsible for. Guys absolutely ache to think they can do it for you. It really is a guy thing. What they don't get is that it doesn't do it for every girl.
Don't let him touch you if you don't want it.
Now,I gotta go with everyone else and wag my finger at you for your age. Really doll, you gotta take it easy there. You are going to look back with regrets. The best hope is to stop now and pick it up later, much later, when real commitment enters your life. I know you won't listen but I had to say it.
2007-02-02 13:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
undesirable boys are the lads that a woman's mom and dad do no longer want her to this point. Ever seen " A Streetcar Named desire"? the guy in that movie/play performed via Marlon Brando is the epitome of a bad Boy.
2016-11-02 04:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too bad he considers deepest intimacy with you "blah, blah,...this little thing..." You are not there for his pleasure and convenience, and he's treating you like a very, very, cheap whore. This path that you have gotten on is a road that is not leading where you will find happiness, self-respect or purpose. This is a recommendation from a nerdy, never-cool-and-never-will-be mom who is 43 but who is FULL of happiness, self-respect, and purpose (not to mention with a loving, faithful, husband and two on-track teens.....blessed,blessed, blessed). This sounds totally cliche but Jesus is supposed to be your way, your truth, and your life. These words mean something--find out what they REALLY mean and you won't be so concerned about what self-pleasing boys want to use you for.
2007-02-02 14:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by kawoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the better question is - Why are you doing this at 15? Keep your pants on for a few more years and when the right guy comes along you won't be posting Inappropriate questions to the world.
2007-02-02 13:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by collinbarnette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, if he really wants to go down there, my advice is let him. Precious few men enjoy it (although they dunno what they're missing, I've had some great times with my face between women's thighs), it's potentially very enjoyable for you, and the great thing is that although you yourself can have an orgasm, you can't get pregnant from it, which seeing as you're 15 would seem to be a win-win situation.
However, if you find the whole thing icky then you don't need to do it. Simple as that.
2007-02-02 13:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you and your "best friend with benefits" are kinda young to be doing any of that. You're 15 and there should be plenty of things that you're not ready for. So if you're uncomfortable, don't do it. As for his persistence, it's probably because he wants to try something new. Anyway, you shouldn't be having sex at such a young age.
2007-02-02 13:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by luvlee3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up a little before you will understand. As a man, I KNOW what that experience does for my lover! I can feel her quiver all the way from top to bottom and back again!! When she reaches orgaaaaaaasssssssm it is a COMPLETE explosion. As her lover it gives me untold happiness to bring that pleasure to her and makes me feel omnipotent! (If that word gets by you, go find a dictionary)
2007-02-02 13:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Curmudgeon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are probably a little young. He probably never has and wants to try it. I would recommend that you abstain from sex until you are 18. Okay with that said.
I can think of very few things more enjoyable then eating out.
2007-02-02 13:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does 'nt want intimacy but control. Help him to appreciate your beauty and your intelligence by introducing ambience into the equation or tell him that you have got a surprise for him that is two headed... Watch him run. It not enjoy controling him. Now then you are a couple.
2007-02-02 13:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋