well i'm 13 and have a boyfriend, and he wantz 2 have sex but i don't. i keep telling him no but he keeps tryin' 2 get me 2. i've promised on da bible i dat i won't do it till i'm in collage. i really like him alot, but not enough 2 lose my virginity, so wat should i do????????????
2007-02-02 12:34:14 · 25 answers · asked by ~♥~Nae~Nae~♥~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hez a year older than me, and petasucks... u can go screw yourself cuz no one iz playin with dollz over, and don't act like u don't play with dollz.... blow up dollz!
2007-02-02 12:50:02 · update #1
oh my GOD you are still 13.. so don't go to that YET.. wait until you feel ready like 17 or 18 when you are sure you find THE RIGHT" person.. but not now.. don't or you will feel so guilty about your self..
2007-02-02 12:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by sylvaniaS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got some good info and good advice. When guys are 13, the only thing they can think of is sex. This is the truth, it has very little to do with thought or emotion, that is not really their fault, at 13 your brain doesn't exactly work right yet. Unfortunately that means they are kind of dumbasses when it comes to how that might make someone feel. When you wrote "i don't" you answered your own question. Wait until your ready, and if that means you gotta lose this guy then so be it, believe me you will get over him and he will get over it too. In time, you will know that perfect person and you will be glad you listened.
2007-02-02 21:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Last of four brothers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't want to sound like your mom here or anything, but I really think you are too young to have sex now. You are only 13 years old...If this guy really cared for you, he would not be pushing you to have sex. Sounds like he is only trying to get one thing from you....and I am sure you dont' want that...You probably want more out of a relationship than just being used. How old is this guy any way? He shouldn't push you.....stick to your promise that you made! you will feel better if you do.
2007-02-02 20:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait until your heart and body is ready. Because if you dont you might give away your most precious jewel to someone who does not know how to appreciate it. Take it from me I wish I would have saved myself for someone who really loved me but I didn't and that's why I'm telling you in the long run you will thank yourself for waiting til the right time. Plus you are in control of what happens down there. The men have no control you have to run game on them and make them wait. Don't let him run game on you and have you doing anything against your will.
2007-02-02 20:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by deebo21_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI THERE LISTEN YOUR RIGHT IT'S THE LAW U DO NOT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING U DO NOT WANT TO AND IF HE MAKES U HAVE SEX AGAINSH YOUR WISHES IT'S A CRIME YOUR NOT ALONE OK IF HE REALLY LOVES U HE WILL WAIT YOUR ONLY A CHILD 13 WALK AWAY FROM HIM NOW YOUR STILL YOUNG i HAVE A DAUAGHTER YOUR AGE MY EYES ARE ALWAYS WATCHING HER. WHERE R YOUR MOM AND DAD. DO NOT FEEL AS IF YOUR WORTH NOTHING IF U DO NOT DO THIS IT'S ALL IN A BOY OR MEN GAME TO GET YOUNG LADIES TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM THEN THEY RUN OFF DO NOT DO THIS OK BE SMART BY SAYING NO THAT IS WISE CHOICE YOUR MAKING .
2007-02-02 20:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 12 so hopefully I can answer your question well enough for you.Ok,if u don't want to have sex with him,(or any1 else til college),then just tell him u dont.Plus,you have your whole life to do stuff like that.You don't need to be doin that at your age.And what if your parents found out and both of you got in alot of trouble or you became pregnant?That happens to alot of girls around in their teen years.So just tell him you don't want to.Hope I helped!
2007-02-02 20:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you are 13!! no matter what anyone says, that's WAAAYY too young to be having sex. NO ONE does it that young, and most people who say they have are lying (trust me!).
okay, first off, break up with your boyfriend. immediately. he obviously doesn't care about you, or he would've stop asking you to hv sex when you first told him "no"...
But, yeah, you definitely should wait to do it until you're at least 16 or 17. college is a little extreme... but i totally respect your decision to wait until then. a lot of people don't and end up pregnant or with STDs and stuff.
good luck!!
2007-02-02 21:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by LoveisLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change boyfriend if he won't take NO for an answer, what do think might happen if his hormones got the better of him, are you physically strong enough to resist?
Sex is great : WHEN the time is right
2007-02-02 20:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Master U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...ur only 13!!!!!!!!!!!!.....my sis. got pregnant when she was 15 and she had a hard time..u do wateva u wanna do..but trust me..i live with her and its not ez takin care of a baby....u still have ur whole life 2 have sex...lol....if he really loved u..he would understand u and ait till OUR ready...hes not da only 1 in da relationship..he should think about u 2...once he gets wat he wants..if u come out pregnant...u think he'll stay there wit u??..i bet cha da 1st thin he'll say is..."so whos da father?"....just think bout it!!!
2007-02-02 20:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Genny gennie gen gen~~~~~~~~~!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seemed like a smart girl until you had to ask a stupid question! You already know the answer. Are you wanting someone to say yes, do it? If thats it, you are one stupid young lady. Come on, use your head!!!
2007-02-02 20:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋