okay okay i admit im a virgin, but alot of girls say it was painful and akward!! um that freaks me out, how was your first time?how old? and were you freaked that they would think you were fat?
2007-02-02 12:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first time was when I was 22 (22 yrs ago) and painful, yes, but I remember being so caught up in the passion of the moment that I don't think the discomfort bothered me too much. Also, I was pretty..warmed up...by the time we got to it, so I think that made it less painful. :) It was hot and fun and memorable and sweet...different than I expected and better than I expected. I was glad I'd waited until my twenties. I wouldn't have been ready for it emotionally before that. Relationships that involve sex get pretty complicated and intense.
And yeah, I was a little on the chubby side but I don't remember caring at the time because we were both so into it and not really self-conscious until afterward. If the guy loves you, he'll make you feel beautiful no matter how self-conscious you are. The guy I was with did.
2007-02-02 12:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I waited until I was married, so I was 22. (That's not to say I was TOTALLY innocent..I did PLENTY of other stuff that wasn't technically sex). It wasn't painful or awkward. I wasn't worried that he would think I was fat because, even though I am kind of heavy, I knew he loved me and I was secure in our relationship. That's the only way to have your first time...remember...you only get one chance for a first time. I'm not being preachy and saying "be married", just be sure he's the right one.
2007-02-02 20:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jen H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 16...I'm now almost 24. I really wish I would have waited until college and most of my friends that I have talked to about it say the same thing. Make sure your first time is special because when it is none of the superficial things matter.
2007-02-02 20:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by lauren c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was painful for real but trust me girlfriend the enjoyment you get from it is worth the pain especially if you really love the person you do it with and you are gonna be really shy about it afterwards. by the way i was seventeen
2007-02-02 20:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chilli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
17
painful
odd
2007-02-02 20:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't painful but it was dreadfully awkward and come to think of it i didn't feel anything, it really sucked and i kinda wish i would have waited.
2007-02-02 20:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by T.T. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't drink Dr. Pepper! Trust me on this!!!
2007-02-02 20:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by (R) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no time like your first time.I hope you enjoy your first experience.I enjoyed my first time ,it felt so good.
2007-02-02 20:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by mikedonwarr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was really good that i almost forgot who i was then at 20.
2007-02-02 21:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋