How do I tell this guy he uses too much tongue when he kisses without actually telling him? It was only our first kiss so maybe he was just nervous and used too much (i'm talking tonge down my throat)? what do you think? too early to tell? how can I train him to my style?
2007-02-02 12:20:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tried to keep my mouth closed and he either got it back opened or pulled away for a second then right back to it.
2007-02-02 12:26:12 · update #1
he is probaly smacking himself in the head right now...chances he WAS nervous. What you need to do is tell him "too much" lol thats it, hell get the picture. OH and if he still does it...lean away from him.
2007-02-02 12:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by benny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him the way you want him to kiss you. so if he's using too much tongue, dont respond the same.. or just dont use tongue at all and he'll get the idea you're not into it but keep kissing the way you're comfortable with and get him back into it .. usually works without telling & wont hurt him either since it was ur first kiss =]
2007-02-02 12:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I understand. Nothing like the sensation of being french kissed by a german sheppard. (Relax, it's just a figure of speech).
Here's what I did. Take his face in your hands (gently, just like in the movies). And tell him you want to show him what you like. Ask if that's okay..
Then kiss him gently, or however you like it. He'll get the idea.
Good luck!
PS..if he's not cool with that, better not keep him around. God knows what will happen if he is unwilling to take suggestions in other, more sensitve, departments.
2007-02-02 12:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by arwens_curse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try keeping ur mouth closed he'll get the idea
2007-02-02 12:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Molly <3 CCL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite his tongue. LOL Not too hard - just hard.
2007-02-02 12:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by RuffRuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋