Yeah, I have already told you ppl abt how my man gets mad wen I get hit on (I mean he really raises Hell) But God forbid I say anything when I find out that some gurl has told him she loves him and ask him to call her wen he gets home from work... but he (literally) never calls me. We live long distant (abt 5 hrs) but this gurl lives 6 states away. And he gets really upset wen I ask him abt this *****! The only way we communicate is by Email now.. but I Email him but Im not gettin any responses now. The last time I spoke to him was sunday. And he still spoke of us gettin a place together and how he cant live w/o me and how he really needs me. but yet he is being distant from me....and yes I love him so much..... So the question (this time)... do I continue to bring up this gurl, and how he doesnt write any more or let it go??
2007-02-02 12:15:51 · 10 answers · asked by Wonniedapooh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is using you as an ego boost. He obviously doesn't care for you at all. The jealousy crap is his sick twisted way of trying to keep control of you. And the possessiveness usually leads to abuse, and you don't need that. It sounds like your self-esteem may be low, and you should let no man affect how you feel about yourself. I say you find someone who can say, " I know why that man hit on you, cuz you're hot" or something like that. A man should trust you, and you should be able to trust him. Your relationship sounds DOOMED. Cut this "little boy" out of your life and you will see that you can make it without him. Besides you never know if Mr. Right walked by when your thoughts are consumed by someone who doesn't deserve the freaking time of day!! You are better than him, and make sure you tell him that when you dump his a*s!!
2007-02-02 12:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by girlmrcs_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, girl, here it is: You are already broken up with him, you just don't see it yet. What I mean is that he is obviously seeing someone else. The attention that he gives you by telling you that he wants to get a place together with you and so on, well that is typical of someone who is using you as the "insurance policy". You know - that means that he is going to keep you stringing along in case this other chick doesnt work out, then he wont have to be alone. You deserve so much better than that!!! I would suggest that you consider cutting him off - period. No more emails, no more calls, or anything - believe me, with someone like that, its the only way you will be able to get on with your life because he will always have a hold on you as long as you allow yourself to listen to his stories about how he wants to be with you, and blah blah blah. Good luck and I hope this helps!
2007-02-02 20:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. find someone in your area, and string him the way he is stringing you. Just kidding I know you cant do that when your in love. I would say be patient, wait it out and see how things unfold. Unless you do happen to meet someone you are attracted to near you. My bf is 2 hrs away and also not real communicative. but i have trust.
2007-02-02 20:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm wow, the person who answered before me was so much help.
Well, I think you should continue bringing her up. You say he get's jealous easy? Well alot of people say when a person cheats they suspect their girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse.. You get the picture, i'm not trying to say that he's cheating. But there is a good chance that he suspects you for somthing he did.
2007-02-02 20:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shameika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go he is probably calling and emailing the other girl find someone else he is obviously, handing you a line and you are falling fr it hook,line,and sinker.
2007-02-02 20:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to tell you this but this game is over.
do your self a favor and find a better man that won't be such a jerk.
looks like he is just keeping you on the string. time to jump off!!!
2007-02-02 20:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Life is too short.
2007-02-02 20:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Geaux-Geaux Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I hit on you?(o:
2007-02-02 20:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just FYI here, it's "break up" not brake...
2007-02-02 20:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him!!!!!!
2007-02-02 20:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by James Dean Girl <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋