my life is miserable wit this guy i am with, but i can never leave him
2007-02-02 12:09:38 · 46 answers · asked by utada h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why? are you unhappy with yourself too?
tell him he upsets you and if he doesn't care, leave him.
2007-02-02 12:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by soren 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When I am unhappy with my guy, I talk to him, first of all, after that, if things are not going any better, then I take a serious look at ME. I really take a look at my part in the problem. (Because I definately have my part in every problem). And then, after carefully taking a good look at things, I decide what things I can change, and if I feel it needs to be changed, then I make the changes. Then, I look at all the things that I cannot change, I either learn to accept them, or I leave them. Thats it. There is really nothing more I can do.
Good luck, girl, I hope this helps some. And believe me, I know that its a lot easier for me to write all this than it is to do any of it. But, once you do, its well worth it..
2007-02-02 12:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he the only daisy in the field? Get rid of him and move on. Life is too short to be miserable. You can be miserable by yourself. You don't need another miserable body to drag you down even more. Don't have any contact with him for a week. You'll get over him.
2007-02-02 12:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, if you're not happy with him, then you CAN leave him. if he makes you feel like complete sh*t and then makes u think that you NEED him then no offence, but its an abusive relationship, though i shoudlnt really be in a position to judge.
think about all the things you could do if you werent with him anymore, you'd be SO much happier and there's so much out therer u can achieve rather than wasting your time with him. there's probably someone else out there who deserves you more than he does and YOU most definetely desreve better. no one should ever be forced to stay put and be unhappy.. its just not right. trust me, things will seem so hard at the beginning, leaving him will be hard, especially if you've been with him for a long time AND especially seeing as you feel you cant leave him, but once you do and you start fresh, you'll know you made the right choice.
please, think about this for yourself. do it for you! i wanna see you smiling =)
2007-02-02 12:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sit him down and have serious talk besides if he takes it as a joke you should find a way to get out of the relationship.Find out whats causing you to think you have miserable relationship.
2007-02-02 12:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by ~Miss Lynn~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate and be honest with him. Without either of them, you really do not have a true relationship. If you don't discuss it with him, you will continue to be unhappy and you will start to harbor ill feelings and they will grow and you will not like yourself and he will see how unhappy you are. You have to discuss things in order for there to be a chance to for strengthening your relationship with him. Let it grow in a good way by being honest and talking with him. You can Grow stronger when you talk, even when it is about uncomfortable subjects.
2007-02-02 12:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and why not? What's stopping you? If it's about hurting his feelings...well just look at yours right NOW. He doesn't seem to care much about you if he's making your life "miserable." Leave him now and move on. Do it for you AND him. Otherwise you're just leading him on...
2007-02-02 12:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can`t you leave him??
Don`t just stay for the sake of it,get out if your unhappy and live your life.
2007-02-02 12:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in that same situation, because i was scared of being alone. i was miserably with him...for a couple of years, but i was so afraid of not being with him.
it hurt when i left him. a lot. for months.
but now, i found a new guy... who's perfect for me. i am SO glad i didn't stay with the first guy.
don't waste any more time of your life. it's your RIGHT to be happy... and it's clearly not with him. it will be hard, but you should do it.
good luck!
2007-02-02 12:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even realize what you stated? Your miserable, but can never leave him. Hmmm..guess your gonna be miserable for a long long time.
2007-02-02 12:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should work on your self esteem. It seems like you don't think much of yourself to stay with a guy that makes you unhappy.
2007-02-02 12:21:07 · answer #11 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋