Hello all. Im turning 30 in 2 weeks. I have always wanted to find someone special to share my life with but havent yet. Am i destined to be lonely forever. Who will be interested in a 30 year old man. Thanks. Terrified.
2007-02-02 12:02:10 · 9 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry, My husband didn't get married until he was 40
2007-02-02 12:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing!!! Why would you feel like life is over at 30???!!! My goodness, you are so young!!! I feel like I am still young and I am 45!!!! I still have so much of life ahead!!! And by the way, I have only been with the person I will be spending the rest of my life with 3 years ago on the 8th of feb!! And it is so nice!!! Try to get a different perspective on things, because trust me, when you get to be 50 and 60 (which is still somewhat young these days), you are going to be so mad at yourself for wasting all those years feeling like you were so old, when you should've been enjoying your youth!!!! Really think about it, I mean these are things I would expect to hear out of someone whos 70 or 80 perhaps, not almost 30!!!
2007-02-02 12:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a MAJOR mental melt down when I turned 30 last year. But I am married and have 1 son. NOOOOO, your life's not OVER! It's just beginning. I have a friend who is 31 and has still yet to find "the right person". We usually find them when we aren't looking for them. Just surround yourself with friends and live life!!! I mean there are dating services 'n stuff but don't be desperate. Let love come to you. Good luck! It's not the end of the world! And 30 is NOT old.
2007-02-02 12:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by SoCalGal75 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just turned 30 in November and am going through the same thing. I think we are screwed and going to be alone forever. If at 40 we have gotten married to others do you want to be my back up plan :)
2007-02-02 12:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by dab1121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
30 is just the start there is plenty of time don't worry there is someone waiting for a special individual like yourself just keep looking you will find your someone, could be shopping, dancing, or attending some meeting. Good luck and don't be afraid to take chances!
2007-02-02 12:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thirty does not mean life is over, your still young and you can do more things where you like to play with..
2007-02-02 12:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by machoguy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is only over when you die.
Now get on with it (life) and do something practical that suits you in your situation: evening class, internet dating, am dram, whatever gets you out of the house to meet new people.
& remember not to be needy, it's very off putting.
M : (
2007-02-02 12:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by mesmerized 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thirty is the best thing that ever happened to me. Don't fret!
2007-02-02 12:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by some chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww
uhh...go out more? ur still young..jeez.
damn i wish i was thirty..sucks being 18..UGH!
2007-02-02 12:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋