there's this guy I know and he's mad HOT. He's plays soccer like me so that's 1 thing we have in commen. The truth is I don't even know him very well and I'm afraid he'll reject me, especially since I'm not that hot.I really like him and I want to be with him but I don't know how to actually be with him,sooooo the question is WHAT DO I DO??!!(I'm not gonna tell him Or do him so don't bring that up)
2007-02-02 11:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by kimmz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well since u both like soccer challenge him to a soccer game and if he play the same as u make him run for his mney but make sure he wins because guys like to win after that he will start talking to u alot more an dthen just try to make him like u but dont think that it is desprate to ask him out because some times guys r very shy when it comes to asking a girl out so just get to know him and then ask him ou t
good luck
2007-02-02 11:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by ilov3brianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by striking a conversation with him. Find out what you have in common. Be flirtatious and see if he mirrors that. And if he does appear to be flirting with you, play a little bit of hard to get. Ask him, very casually, if he'd like to go somewhere with you and your friends. (Maybe see another soccer game since you both enjoy that.) If he accepts, you've got a winner. If he's really worth it, taking it a little bit at a time will help and it will give you the edge over the girls that probably throw themselves at him!
2007-02-02 19:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. Try by talking to him, saying hi first, then maybe talking about something related to soccer, that was you can get more comfortable around him first. Then going to talk to him will be easier, and you can start flirting a bit, talk to him and flirt. See his reaction. If hes flirty too he likes you. Then at least he will know that you are interested and if he is too then he will make the next move, ask you out, etc...
2007-02-02 20:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have soccer in common-just have a conversation with him aobut that and try to get in as a friend.
2007-02-02 19:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wznt gnna mention that! lol :D i say tlk 2 him n dnt b shy! sum guys lik more than just a pretty face. tlk 2 him n get 2 kno him. mayb hes more than hot or mayb hes not as kool 8 ) as u thought.....
2007-02-02 20:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by ♥SwEeT_SpOrT_ChIk♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be his friend, and the feeling will either grow stronger or be gone, and if they grow stronger, there is a possibity he may have them back..... but ya if finds out later that he likes you then he will ask you out..... so you are doing the right thing by not asking he out.....guys have told me that they think that it is way to desperate
2007-02-02 20:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello kimmz just take your time to get to know him better then go from there but what ever you want to do or not to is your own personal business
2007-02-02 20:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by harold g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friends with him. Good luck. :)
2007-02-02 20:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by dancin'girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus ask him out and if he says no then jus forget about it.
2007-02-02 20:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well than you don't have many options, do you?
2007-02-02 19:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by sklinckyyyyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋