My exgirlfriend dumped me and then I stopped calling and she contacted me again. I asked her why she was calling me and she said she wants to be friends now and see where it goes because she was not happy with me when we were together (I was pushy and sometimes needy). She has told me there is no one else and I think she is telling the truth. Now she calls me constantly. Sometimes five to six times a day. I try to avoid some of them. She asks me why I never called her when I don't return her calls. She asks me to lunch and other things but we are no longer physical. I have no idea what to do. I don't want to be put on the backburner or be friends, its too hard for me. I would rather walk away. But should I give her time? Should I see what happens? Or better tell her I can't be friends with her and move on? I have no idea what she is up to. She will not stop calling me. What do I do? Possible we will be back together? Or she has already put me in "friends forever" category?
2007-02-02 11:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it's very obvious that she's not over you. She likes you and all but maybe she doesn't like some of your ways. If you really want to be with her try to change.
2007-02-02 11:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do would be to tell her you need your space right now, that youre not objecting to being friends but you need to time to sort things out, if she stops calling you for a while wait and then call her and ask her out on something casual and see if you guys have the same spark or if theres nothing there. it cant hurt, but if she keeps persistantly calling you, thats your sign to back away because she is probably very possessive and wont leave you alone friend wise
2007-02-02 11:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems pretty confused too, like shes not sure if she want to be with you or just your friend. It obviously bothers you so you gotta talk to her. Ask her what she wants, to only be friends or to try again. If she says friends, which you dont want, then tell her you cant be her friend, that its too hard (lie if you gotta).
2007-02-02 11:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she likes playing games....when you gave her attention she dumped you....now that you stop calling her she wants attention.....For your sanity I would just leave her alone because she just might hurt you again!!!
2007-02-02 12:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like the pushy and needy one
2007-02-02 11:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is dual minded... like she wants u... and she also dont want u.....just move with her like before...talk kindly... and some time show ur love by just gifts and help... showing that ur there fr her all the time
2007-02-02 12:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋