ok so this guy I love yes love I recently found out that he has a type of cancer...and.....only has 2 years to live we don't go out yet but i still love him and I whant to stay by his side even if he doesen't love me back I know that it sounds stupid but i love him and if I could I would take his place so that he may live I would die for him he knows that he only has 2yr left to live and he says that is does not fase him but i still whant to be there for him and maby the docters were wrong but even scarryer is that I lost my grandmother to cancer and if you have ever seen someone die of cancer than you never whant to see it agian but I don't go out with him but I am still going to stay by him no matter what does that sound stupid even though I love him
2007-02-02 11:43:50 · 4 answers · asked by Sparky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH my God that is horrible, Im so sorry :( I would be tracking down his number if i didn't have it like there was no tommorow. If you love him who the hell cares if he doesn't love you back. With your emotions involved like this if you didn't do something I would bet you would regret it for the rest of ur life. Its okay in life to love someone if they dont love you back. But I am assuming he does know you right??? It wouldn't be right if he's never met u before that would be strange. But if your friends communicate with him, tell him you want to be there, and see if thats okay with him. Your a good person.
2007-02-02 11:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by kayla k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow just practically spelled out my life to me. I LOVE this guy too who's dad died of cancer very recently and he doesn't love me back, but I always want to be by his side. Honey, you are a very beautiful soul, and god bless. But, now, all you can do is make sure he knows that you're there, and when he's ready he might open up to you. Yes! Or it might never happen, I can almost feel the anxiety in your voice. It's like you so want to be there for him, but he's not giving you a chance. Just keep reminiding him that you're ALWAYS there and will be till he leaves. Please email me if you want to talk further.
~Sam
2007-02-02 19:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very noble of you and it is very reassuring to him I am sure. I am just confused as to what your relationship with him is. Be there for him, but let him enjoy his time....help him enjoy his time.
I am really sorry for both your grandmother and this man. Good luck to you.
2007-02-02 19:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this MAY seem hard.......but tellhim you love him and tell him you would die for him.......if he doesnt do anything than he's to blind and be friends with him.....i did it and im only in 7th grade.....I'M REALLY SHY TO! i say go for it
2007-02-02 19:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥I 'm coco for cocoa puffs♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋