Hello, I've been dating a 34 years old girl for about 11 months now. We meet online and really hit it off, till one day 7 months into the relationship I discovered that she was using cocaine before our lovemaking. She told me it was so she could be more esentrik. The problem is she knows how strongly against it I am and I view it the same as being cheated on. Before we started dating she had to make sure I was not a heavy drug usser, and now look. I'm not sure if I can ever trust her again. I can't not forget about it and it's driving me crazy it's making me physically sick. She's told me she hasn't used since then. Our sex life has gotten to the point of almost none existence. I don't know what to do??????any help,,,please and thank you
2007-02-02 11:34:50 · 12 answers · asked by Frenchy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. There are plenty of girls better than her.
2007-02-02 11:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on...for several reasons: 1) she lied to you...2) having a controlled substance is illegal...3) you don't want to somehow get associated with her drug use...4) she's hypocritical...and 5) she's most likely still using and an addict if she told you she has to use to feel/be more exciting.
2007-02-02 11:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my Gosh! Why are you even asking? You say that you are opposed to drug use, but you continued to do this Crack Hoe for like 4 months after you found out. She is NOT the only woman out there. Go find yourself a real woman and not a little girl crack hoe. And next time, please be more respectful of her and don't sleep with her until you are married.
2007-02-02 11:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Drug Scene, is far too often, a one-way Street. It may be better to get some respect, from someone else. I wish you luck. But it may be worth gaining some piece of mind.
2007-02-02 11:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drugs are no good you need to move on. This is alarming because anyone who uses drugs is basically hiding or masking a problem. There are plenty of women out there, move on.
2007-02-02 11:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She lied to you, and there may be other things she's lying about too. She may not be aware of all the things she does while she's high... and AIDS and other STDs are rampant about heavy drug-users. For your own safety and peace of mind, dump this crazy girl and get yourself tested ASAP!
If she's really serious about you, this will be her wake-up to get cleaned up for good.
2007-02-02 11:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, move on. If it is causing you that much emotional pain, leave her. The relationship is not good for you. Besides, drug abuse is usually a hint that there are other issues.
2007-02-02 11:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by CrystalEyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. That sounds like a sign of a more serious problem
2007-02-02 11:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by dab1121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me get this right .. she had to make sure you were not a druggie.. but she uses cocaine...kind of sounds like a one sided person to me.. i think you already know what to do about this one
2007-02-02 11:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can in the other direction. This woman obviously has problems, and it is hurting you and your life.
2007-02-02 11:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by lauren c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋