i have bad habit of shouting when anger strikes me. so i became a bad stamped person. is it immoral to do so even u r justified in ethical side?
2007-02-02 11:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Like I said in one of my questions, you could find yourself all alone in right-ville. A soft answer turns away wrath.
2007-02-02 11:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be immoral especially when you are justified ethically, but think of how much better it is for you to be the relaxed, self-controlled person in the problem? If you want to change peoples bad opinions of your actions/emotions then show them that you have self-control in all things, because self-control is one of the most sought after values, yet few actually have it.
2007-02-02 22:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by ej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself whether your anger is without any purpose or not... purpose means, If anyone done what you don't like. So, you are angry.... If it is so, your anger is having a purpose. it is not you to be changed it is only your place.... secindly if you are not in the above statement.. it means you are in trouble.... you have to see a anger therapist... thirdly If you are angry on your society and showing it on your neighbours... don't do it.. show it over the society itself.....not in the way of distruction On construction... Don't waste your anger... If you are not in these three. the fourth is Are you angry about yourself? If so, you can meet a Psychotherapist... It is not a big problem at all....
2007-02-06 03:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by bharathkumarkt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not justified in ethical side because it is not ethical to shout and hurt the other person. there is no meaning to reacting to a situation and making it worse for the other person but it is always ethical to respond to the situation and do or say what is required. usually when you react there is a negative result but when you respond there is always a positive result.when you react you are actually targeting the person but when you respond you are targeting the situation. now you know what to chose,right?
2007-02-03 04:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by shubhada b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily but one must learn how to control and express emotions,especially the bad ones.Don't worry. You are not alone in the world. Many people have this problem.
2007-02-06 02:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by love all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is that if the relative is big, give respect and spread love among eachother and to all, so u don't have to run from them, otherwise, it will going to effect u if u r directly or indirectly related to them.
2007-02-06 09:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by rohit d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good does shouting do when anger strikes? Consider, instead, what it is that makes you so angry and work on fixing the trigger, subduing or eliminating it, so that there's no more trigger to pull to make you angry.
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2007-02-02 19:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by vinslave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who know u will understand u ,on religious side u can try out some rudrakshas
2007-02-03 02:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your self in a corner and ask this question from your self....you are the one who can answer this....
2007-02-06 11:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by simmi sahani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋