I've been with my man only a month and he drinks all the time! Last night he got super drunk and was hitting on girls in front of me and when I called him out on it when I was driving him home he got really mad and jumped out of the car. He said today he was just drunk and acting dumb, but how can I trust him if this is how he acts when I'm around-what is he doing when I'm not there??!!!
2007-02-02 11:16:00 · 20 answers · asked by dab1121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope the car was moving fast when he jumped out...!! Get away from this loser, or start charging him for "The Drunk Bus Limo Service" because you might as well be his Designated Driver. This has the potential of being a really ugly relationship if it continues. You won't come away from it later on without being hurt a lot. Respect yourself.......Move On
2007-02-02 11:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dumb idiot just add alcohol.
When will you ladies realize that people who drink to get drunk are some of the worse people in the US? It's so bad that the government even made a special category of drunks. They are now call sick and so the government will let them off a lot easier but let them get caught with a half of a joint and they go to jail for 3 to 5 years. Go figure, a man can get drunk, go out driving, kill someone and get off with w warning but a roach in your ashtray and you're busted but good.
Your best bet is to dump his drunken butt ASAP cause it's going to lead to no good.
2007-02-02 20:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur drinking ur true colors come out. if he does it in front of u u have ur answer how he is like when ur not around. he has no respect for u what so ever. and if he drinks all the time why would u want to be with someone like that. sweetie i think u could find someone better. but if ur into guys like that learn to live with it. it's different if u do it back so dont try that. 2 wrongs never make a right. i would find someone else. but u are the only one that can make that choice.
2007-02-02 19:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a one of the most, if not THE most important thing in a relationship. Too often people place the blame of their behavior on alcohol or drugs to excuse their behavior, when instead they should be seeking help for it. Since it is so early in your relationship, I would lay down the law and take the upper hand. Let him know that you are not the type of girl to be humiliated and disrespected whether he is drinking or not. Tell him your concerns about his drinking everyday, and that if he wants the relationship to grow, he is going to have to make some positive changes.
2007-02-02 19:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your situation completely... you're not crazy about the drinking and flirting, but you love (or at least like) the boy, and you don't know what to do.
I know everyone's telling you to dump him, but I also know thats not so easy to do. You've got to think about what you want, and what will be best for you. Is this something he'll grow out of? Or, is he going to end up a drunk and in rehab in a few years? You're going to have to think about it... Listen to your heart on this one. You have to be the one to make the decision
2007-02-02 19:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl...ditch the douche. My ex used to get drunk all the time and do similar thihngs or jsut be rude to me and then it was always blown off the next day as him jsut being drunk. He literally sat there are hit on my sister in front of me, then proceeded to ask me if we could all get together. It was a) horrifying and b) jsut so rude. When I called him out on it he started yelling and sh*t. Try talking to him about it when hes sober. If he actions don't change don't waste your time on him. There are plenty of guys out there who are chill drinkers, who wont even think of hitting on someone else with or without u there... and you can find one of them....
Good luck
2007-02-02 19:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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As my feet slap down against the cold wet pavement, and my face drips rain from the storm, an unrelenting need to drink pushes me further. Exact final destination appears unknown , but it's inevitable that the evil inside will again return me to the source of my nightmare. No control, no will of my own, no power had I found that might evict this hell that had infected my body and mind. Self-identity, and all that was once me, had been buried under countless layers of drunkenness, so deep, that any calls for help were merely an echo inside my head.
This living liquid curse, cunning and without conscience, had been absorbed into a body which at one time eagerly welcomed it's unyielding influence. But now, as the onslaught of alcohol turned viciously against the world around me, it was only I being held responsible for it's drunken destruction carried out during my imprisonment.
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2007-02-03 14:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's drinking all the time well you just know he's going to hit on other women. He did it in front of you without any hesistation so imagine how he'd go when you're not around. Get rid of him now before it's too late, he sounds like a loser to me.
2007-02-02 19:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then he HAS to STOP drinking all together if your not there. Thats going to be a challenge for u cause guys like to drink and we all know that people always look "different" when your drunk. That sucks, but if he loves you, he'll move mountains for you. If not, get someone whos not into partying (thats what Id do)
2007-02-02 19:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by kayla k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, get rid of that guy. Been there, done that. You do not want someone that embarrasses you, disresprects you, or can't handle their liquor. My ex use to be like that and its nothing but an emotional strain to you. I'm telling you, you are on the road of disaster.
2007-02-02 19:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by ginluvsrob06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋