but not have the nerve to be straightforward about everything else with that very person???...Im always interested in how you can trust someone with your body ...but not with your thoughts....What do you think?
2007-02-02 11:13:34 · 12 answers · asked by LeiMe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because some people view sex as just an act. Sex doesn't have to be profound or meaningful it's just physical and you don't get hurt. When you trust someone with your emotions and thoughts you open yourself up to being hurt. Since noone wants to get hurt it's just easier to have sex and move on than to get emotionally involved and risk having your heart broken.
2007-02-02 11:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by icu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats becuz peopel get drunk and don't understand if you don't trust them don't have sex with them make sure you both are actually inlove and not kiddy love and then maybe after you kiss and stuff it should just sorta happen a guy shouldn't have to ask can we do it now can we do it now a guy should say i think we really now each other and i was wondering if you thinik we might be ready for the next level and if theres secrets they can't be like im secret ly gay or im a virgin just tell them or you'll both get hurt u no
2007-02-02 11:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by laser_179228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the past it was easier to trust a man with my body than with my heart. Because deep down I always knew he would break my heart. Thank God, those days are over.
2007-02-02 11:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm pretty straightforward, but I guess people can have sex and not be straightforward, b/c sex always has a reward and is fun, while being straightforward all the time won't be fun.
2007-02-02 11:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is that you don't trust anyone with your body until you know that you can trust them with your thoughts
2007-02-02 11:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is so true. Good question.
I think people are more interested in physical gratification sometimes then actually expressing who they are as people with words. I think men are guilty of this more than women. But thats just my opinion. I think it has to do with insecurity. But everyone is different. Everyone has their own story.
2007-02-02 11:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart question. You've hit on one of the most intriguing questions about today's dating world.
2007-02-02 11:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just sex. Feelings are so much more intimate then sex.
2007-02-02 11:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i trusted my girlfriend with our thoughts, she betrayed me and she couldnt trust me with her body but she trusts another girl with it
2007-02-02 11:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prostitutes,and we gigolos do it everyday.
2007-02-02 11:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋