i like this guy named "Rick". the thing is "Rick" is kind of a loser. its not like i am all that popular at school. but i am so out of "rick's" leauge. all my friends thin "rick" is a loser but i want to go out with him... what should i do?? of course i know i should care what people think but i do. also i havent kissed any one yet so how do you knoe when its the right time to kiss? how do you ask a guy if you want to kiss?
2007-02-02 11:13:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is Rick really a loser to you? Dont lie to yourself sit down and really think about this O.K.? Take your time........ Or is he different from "The in crowd"and not excepted? If you go around caring what people think in life your going to be reeeeal sad and unhappy in this world .Delete that thought. quickly...Dont trip to much about the kissing thing you"ll have lots of those (smile)
The "right time" never misses .. The question is do you want to kiss this guy and if you do,, does he want to kiss you too for the same reasons as you.. If so then thats the right time....Also are you going to waste your first kiss to a "loser"...Basically what im trying to say is your in control..Go with your instinct remember your young and have your whole life ahead of you..Good Luck !!!
2007-02-10 08:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by carlosnor415 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love "Rick" then go for him. People are going to talk and talk and talk. but just because they talk doesnt mean they have anything to do with your life. If you truely like "Rick" then let him in your life. Alot of times the losers are the sweetest ones. Give him a try...and if people talk about you then they arent truely your real friends. You make the right choice and let others make the wrong. Lifes about exploring and many other things. Just give "Rick" a chance!
About the kissing thing..I havent kissed a guy yet either. But im waiting for the right one. I dont want a guy to kiss me if i have no feelings for him at all. I know the guy will come around and Ill be ready. and about asking him to kiss...i dont really believe in that. I think that a kiss just kinda happens. its not a "hey do you wanna kiss me" thing. Its a sparks flying and fireworks in the sky kinda thing to me.
well i hope everything works out! :)
2007-02-10 18:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young, and I hope "Rick" is only your age. In that case, there's plenty of time for him to shine. Don't judge him without knowing him. As for the kissing, it's not something you should ask a guy to do. It happens when the time is right. Talk to Rick and see how you feel after that.
2007-02-02 19:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may think he's a loser because secretly they want him or because he doen't fit what "they" consider hot or is he a real loser like doesn't go school, untidy and disrespectful. If he isnt then talk to him... it might be the beginning of a great relationship. U don't ask for a kiss.. it just happens.
2007-02-10 17:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like "rick" than u should definaltly go for it. maybe if u start goin out wit him ur friends will get to know him better and not be all like "OMG he is a loser" if u get wat im talkin bout. and i just had my first kiss this summer and i didnt even know it was goin to happen until it did happen. like just out of no where the guy leaned over and kissed me. and never ask for a kiss just go for it if u think the person wont care. most the time they really wont care so yea... good luck wit all ur problems !!
2007-02-02 19:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by kaity_cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create you"re own of what "cool" is.What makes Rick a loser? Stop following you"re friends.Be a trend setter.F your friends. follow your heart baby.Free yourself
2007-02-10 18:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by ecclectic1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want rick - get rick. don't worry about what other people have to say about you and him....definitely don't let people hold you back from getting what you want...
and don't stress the "first kiss".....it will happen when it happens. don't plan when....or force your first kiss, when it's unexpected it's magical. just be patient!
2007-02-02 19:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by mfn_rockstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i cant help you with this one im in the same predicament as you and..."rick". good luck. (ok...good luck to me too....ugh! awkward situation isnt it luv?!!) as for the kissing part i can help you with that...i think. ok so basically you DONT ask him if he wants to kiss! thats way to predictible and ....just isnt really romantic! what you do is wait until youre alone for the first time...and just lean over and kiss him on the cheek the first time. or if your feeling bold, just go for it!!! kiss him on the lips, you dont have to french the first time if you dont feel comfortable. good luck hon!!! xoxo, caitlyn
2007-02-02 19:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo search Paula White.
2007-02-10 18:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, u dont like aguy based on his popularity. the best guys are the losers, because no one notices them. second of all, u dont ask a guy if he wants to kiss. it just happens. if u think ur out of his league, then ur concited and dont deserve him!
2007-02-02 19:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋