help....i need to know what i should do on my first date?

Question

ok, so, im in a relationship now, im in 8th grade (ok, now the first reaction you have is that i'm too young. perhaps, but don't answer if you are just going to dicourage me and give me a lot of talk about age)...so anyway...i need to know what i should do for my first date? how should i ask her about it? and what should i look for? just give me a lot of advice in general. first kiss?

Answer 1

First of all ur not u young well not how i think about it anyways dont talk about school unless it will make her laugh ( like if someone triped or the teacher tryed to tell a joke) talking about school my get her boared. you should take her to a movie (epic movie might help break the ice). Then if u feel tat u want to kiss her just go for it there is nothing to loose right.

Answer 2

Movies are out because you don't get to talk, and while restaurants are better in that area, they can potentially create embarrassment over food spilled on clothing, food caught in teeth, or bad breath. They can also create a lot of pressure to talk a lot, so if you're shy it will be a very awkward, silent meal. In fact, a lot of teens date in groups, at least at first, because it is less awkward and stressful. Whether double dating or not, I suggest some sort of activity you are both likely to enjoy, like going skating with hot chocolate afterwards. This can be fun even if you're not any good at it, because it provides lots of excuses for handholding, lots of opportunity to get to know each other, and the chance to show that you have a good sense of humour by laughing at yourself if you happen to fall. It is also inexpensive, which is always a good thing if you don't have a job or are making minimum wage. There are a lot of activities like this, so just use your imagination. Sporting events are probably not such a good idea, however, unless you know she happens to be a big fan.

Answer 3

Be a gentlemen. Treat her with respect and don't be afraid to let her know you like her. Figure out what she like to do. Ask her friends or hint about things to her. Then surprise her with something you know she'll like. Tell her you want to take her somewhere and you and your parent will pick her up if it's ok with her parents. Then go to the Movies or whatever she likes. Before you get picked up for the evening sit close and talk about thins that might make her laugh. Use a lot of eye contact (Stare in to her eyes) and wait for her to lean in. If she likes you, she'll want to kiss you too. It's all about timing.

Answer 4

ok, now i dont think 2 young as long as u dont go 2 far. now how aboutu take her to the best resaraunt u can afford and if u can't afford anything pass cheap chinease, work 4 it.dress really niceley and make sure u smell good and have good, (stylish but not 2 good boyish style) kinda look.do not ever ask ehr wut u guys shud do 4 ur date. always have a plan. listen 2 her when she talks and know wut she likes oo, style, and guy wise. be urself. only kiss her on the cheek if she really likes u. (if shes a party girl) kiss her on the 2sd date, (if shes a good girl) wwait until about the 4th date then ask her if u can kiss her, is hard 2 wait, but smrt u can do it. if u need any more help,email me and i'll help u

Answer 5

okay.. first off.. your not too young.. i fell in love when i was 12 im almost 16 now and still together and in love with the same guy.. but anywho.. dont try and kiss her unless she gives you a sign " looking into your eyes, trying to move closer, etc." just hold her hand alot and be really sweet to her.. be yourself but be a gentleman too.. go to a movie or something.. ask her what she wants to see

Answer 6

dont go to the movies because you cant talk. Maybe out to dinner, nowhere too expensive (assuming you have no job at your age) and if you are embarassed to have one of your parents drive have a sibling do it. First kiss...dont stress, it comes naturally.

Answer 7

Use your tongue