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i like this girl but so does almost every 1 in the school i really like her need some tips and i im kinda her friend but not the best of friends.

2007-02-02 10:50:53 · 13 answers · asked by ... 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Don't be afraid to be different and creative. If you really like her, show all the other guys up with something sentimental, that will mean a lot to her. Doing something that shows how much effort you put into it, will be a good indication to her of how much she means to you. If you like her, you need to show it as effectively as possible. Girls really like sweet things, like compliments and affection.

2007-02-02 10:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Charleen 4 · 0 0

First off, if you are ugly, quite overweight (a little's okay), have poor hygiene (i.e. wear dirty clothes, don't shower everyday, etc.), or your clothes don't live up to a certain standard -- forget it. She can't be seen as going out with someone who doesn't take care of their appearance or health, no matter how nice he is. (Sad fact, but true). But if you are average or better, you have perfect chances of getting her.

Secondly, really pretty girls are often lonely because guys are too scared to approach them. Just by approaching her you have made yourself better than most guys. Really pretty girls in high school usually don't know they're as pretty as they are. This is because in high school everyone is insecure.

Unlike guys, girls don't go for looks as the first priority. It is usually second or third. (For a complete list of what girls look for in a guy see an online version of the Kama Sutra, Part V, chapter I)

Keeping all these things in mind, come up with a plan for your first date. (Hint, don't go to a movie, because you need to get to know her first). Impressive high school dates are taking her out for dinner (you pay) and then going for a walk in a park, beach or window shopping downtown (this will give you a chance to hold hands while you walk, plus taking her out in public shows that you are proud to be seen with her).

Approach her when she is alone (or ask to talk to her alone if she's always with friends) and tell her what you think is special about her (not her looks). Say something like, "I like your personality." "I like your attitude" is also a good one. If she responds well (meaning she doesn't look at you like you're retarded), ask her if you could take her out for dinner?

When she says yes, get her number and arrange the day you'll go. Then leave. Be there, be cool and be gone. You'll talk to her more on the day.

Good luck with this, and I hope you get her. Remember, as a man you have an advantage: a woman can't refuse a confident man (as long as there's nothing obviously wrong with him) because of her receptive nature. Men are outward bearing and women are receptive and inward. We have spears, they have sheilds. Just by having the confidence to approach her (as well as having a plan so that you are the leader) you can get almost any girl.

2007-02-02 11:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by CharlieC 3 · 0 0

Don't listen to thar bs advice "JUST ASK HER!!11". God I hate when people say that. IT'S NOT THAT SIMPLE.

Anyway I really don't know but all I can say is that if everyone likes her, MAKE A MOVE NOW! I know the feeling. I liked a girl but I waited too long and she got taken. That was over a year ago and she's STILL with that guy. I still regret it and everyday I hope she breaks up but she's happy with him -_-.

2007-02-02 10:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

nicely, the ingredient is calling women out spontainiously isnt the wonderful thought. Its greater valuable to get to renowned her, make small communicate and flirt a splash. in case you never spoke to her she will maximum possibly reject her so get to renowned her slightly first. 2d tip, never ask somebody out around absolutely everyone else. be certain its only the two one in each and every of you, absolutely everyone greater effective than which will only rigidity her to the two say confident or no. third tip, the movies is an poor place to take somebody to a date. that's impersonal, costly, and boring. it must be a straight forward place to realize this in spite of the undeniable fact that that's quite undesirable and maximum possibly you wouldnt get a 2d date. i are conscious of it sounds extraordinary because of the fact society many times portrays the movies because of the fact the wonderful place as much as now yet its greater valuable to do someplace the place the two one in each and every of you may communicate. yet another straight forward relationship place is a resturant that's additionally very undesirable because of the fact the two one in each and every of you're too busy ingesting to chat and lower back costly. So, p.c. a place the place the two one in each and every of you're able to be on my own and communicate. attempt to be imaginitive in a date spot and ask your self her with a place that could make her want to bypass on a 2d date. final tip, superb of success with the girls, that's a tedious and long job to comprehend in spite of the undeniable fact that that's one you will use for the the remainder of your existence. If theres any concern which would be greater needed on your existence which you learn in severe college, its relationship. stable success=)

2016-11-24 19:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

dude dont do it over the internet or the phone or in a text just be a man about it go up to her and just do it if she says no than no sweat ive been in yur place to u can always find another girl

2007-02-02 10:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Justin H 1 · 0 0

If everyone likes her, you have to show her you're different. , if she drops her books in the hall, pick them up. Let her walk through the door first, with a casual "Ladies always go first" It will show her that u have something that other guys don't. Be yourself, be different, and be sweet.

2007-02-02 10:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

how old are you? middle school? if yes, then get one of your friends to talk to one of her friends and find out if she likes you and if she does if she wants to go out with you.

Older? Pick up the phone, ask her for a date, (have something in mind) if she says yes --WHOOPIE!! and if not, then her loss, you thank her for her time and hang up.

2007-02-02 10:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0 0

Movies are always a good conversation piece, discuss some movie you are interested in seeing, then ask her if she would like to join you.

2007-02-02 10:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

go up to her and ask her in a really sexy way:
"what would you say if I asked you out?"
if she says yes, ask her out.
if she says no, say:
"what would you say if I asked you to be friends?"
she will probably say yes.
good luck!!!

2007-02-02 10:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

gggggggooooooooooooo for it man just ask out

2007-02-02 11:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by cyrus s 1 · 0 0

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