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i know this guy who i like ALOT, i dont know what to do, everyone knows l like him and he does to, but he hasent done anything. he still flirts and stuff, he just wont ask me out...who can help me. How/what will make him like me for real

Answer 1

honey he may be trying to figure out his feelings for you. you should give him some space for a time, but if nothing happens, it is up to you!!! i kno it sounds horribly cliché but its the truth. try seeing from a mutual friend to find out exactly what he feels about you. it could be that he s just very confused and is putting on a mask to hide his confusion. its not always up to the guy, although usually its them who traditionally makes the first move. ask him with a note if he wants to go see that movie that just opened this weekend. hey, the worst he can do is say no. and that is his loss. youve heard it a million times im sure, but just take a risk....you kno the whole better to have loved and lost thing right? well....... if youre not feeling up to a whole night with him and want to take things slower, ask him to slowdance with you at a dance or something, if worst comes to worst, use your body. make him want you. sounds terribly slutty but thats not what im talking about ( trust me. its NOT a good thing when all the guys just go after you for your bod. it makes you feel like your personality, you self is worthless and it takes some one who really cares about you to bring you out of the rut. DONT go taht way!!!!) what im talking about is simply being a bit suggestive and sexy without trying to hard. on fridays put some thought into your dress especially because if you dont see him over the weekend, that will be what he remembers you by. as for the other days, dress just cleanly, but dont be afraid and go all conservative. straighten your hair one day, add some necklaces the next. surprise him, so that he would be proud to say..."yes im going out with her!"

and now that i have completely bored you to death....ill sign off. lots of luv going your way and good luck sweetie

Answer 2

You can either act like you're ignoring him or you can ask him out yourself. I can tell you from personal experience that when a girl asks me out it makes me fell real special, because usually the guy is going after the girl. Whatever you do, don't be dissapointed if you don't date him. Others will come around and if he doesnt date you, its because he doesnt see how wonderful you are.

Answer 3

i think you should just smile say hi and wait . maybe try not to run into him for a couple of days. then he will wonder were you have been. guys like the challenge. don't tell to many friends all your thinking. it might get bk to him. then one day ask him something about him self. its nice when some one shows interest in you.i like when a guy asks me out first, but things are diff than when i was hanging out.

Answer 4

Ask him out. The chances of him rejecting you rudely are infinitessimally small, and even if that did happen, at least you would know he's a jerk. It wouldn't reflect on you at all. Worst case scenario, he will be flattered but not interested. Best case scenario, he will be flattered and turned on. Either way, you've lost nothing.

Answer 5

Take the initiative and ask him out. How old are you? If you're still in school, see if he wants to study with you, go out to lunch, go to a sporting event, etc. You might want to start out with a group date. Invite him to join you and some friends (male and female) for a movie night, dinner, etc. If you're older, then I still say take the initiative. He's probably shy and would love it if you asked him out.

Answer 6

let him make the move, if u like him he should have the courage to come up to you and kiss you or ask you out! if he doesnt he's a sheep, just keeps on walkin and eating till something helps him out!. guys, do this because their scared to make a change in their relationship and their doing this to make it challenging to see who breaks the ice first

Answer 7

Why don't you ask him out. He might just be scare just like you are. If he knows you like him and he still firts with you he must be interested. Just go for it if you like him a lot or move on.

Answer 8

well first of all DONT amke yourslef seem, um...desperate.
you could ask him ona few dates, like just lunch or something at...applebee's maybe...somewere nice, but not fancy or romantic. just to talk and get to know each other better. he may actually like you, but just keeping it a secret...(i'm not a guy, but i do know that they do that...and i hate it!) because he just might be watching to see how far you will go to get your hands on him...to see how much you really like him, and how much you want to be with him....that is all i can think of...so hopefully i helped you...

Answer 9

just be yourself... if he doesnt make a move but he is still being flirtatious ....flirt back and tell him your interested...youll never know until you make it clear to him ...some men just need an extra boost of confidence in knowing you like them....i wish you luck...:P

Answer 10

Dress to impress. In other words, show some cleavage.