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My bf and i really love each other and everything was fine, well more than fine, it was great some of the best times of my life, and one of the best people i've had in my life. My mom thought we were taking our relationship too seriously for our age. (high school) and decided to get his mother involved to put a stop to it. the reason why my mom did this was because
1) my step dad doesn't like him becuase he isnt social enough with my family and my step dad takes it the wrong way when my bf isnt feeling talktive, not rude, just not starting conversations.
2) My grades went from all a's to two b's a b+ and an a+. so she thought it was nicks fault but the reason why this happened was because we almost moved from Michigan to new york, and it stressed me out to stay with a friend for 5 weeks and not knowing wat was going to happen.
I dont think either of those two reason were a good excuse to call up his mom and make it so we can never see each other. Do u think he and I can make this work

2007-02-02 10:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

OF COURSE!!!!!!!!!

Thats normal... all mothers get scared with a serious relationship regarding her daughter or son. Thats why she went for HIS mother to talk the issue.
Its a mom thing you know.
Get closer to your mom, tell her everything from the bottom of your heart. Get more intimacy and trust.
As soon as she sees her daughter is mature for the age, she will be fine.
Moms are like that, after a while the marriage gets boring and they fantasize about the great love riding a white horse with the sword etc etc etc. And she is kinda projecting herself in you.
Take it easy on her, and get the closest you can.
The keyword is TRUST!

Kisses!!!
Valentinna

2007-02-02 10:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Valentinna 3 · 0 0

Look you should respect what your mother wants because I can tell you it is for the best your mom just does not want to see you get hurt.However I know what is is like to be young and in love,try expressing to your mom that you respect her but there should be some compromise when it comes to your boyfriend.Your mother and stepfather should not forbid you from seeing someone unless he is abusive or a hound.So try to talk to your mom about it.If it is meant to be it will but you are young you will probably be in love several times before it is real!

2007-02-02 18:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0 0

i think that when your parents call and talk with your bf's parents, you guys should both be there too. Try to "calmly" convince them that you do not want to spend time away and that you will work on improving your grades, admit that mick wasn't the only factor with the grade issue. Say sorry for the grade thing, but you will try everything in your ability to make it up and being away from nick will only make it worse.

2007-02-02 18:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am sorry to tell, but your mother made a very bad decision and your step father either. What you can do to try to study as good as you did before to show them that it is not the cause and continue to love the guy and try to have a contact with him...

2007-02-02 18:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by vandom 2 · 0 0

if u guys love eachother then no one can make u guys end it. the only two people that can make that relationship end is ur bf and u. dont let anyone stop u 4rm love becuz later on u will probably regret letting eachother go becuz of something ur parents did or said.

2007-02-02 18:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

The two of you can always continue your correspondence through this INTERNET.
Had you considered this option?

2007-02-02 18:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I see no reason not to stay with him.

2007-02-02 18:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by The Part Truth Xades 2 · 0 0

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