ok, there is this girl that i met on myspace throguht like a really good friend, they are cousins. and i have really gotten to like this girl, and we are really good friends, like we tell eachother that we love eather alot, and are alike in so many ways, she just seems to want to be friends, but i really want to be more than that, so what sohuld i do/say? we are going to the movies this or next weekend as friends.
2007-02-02 10:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am a 14 year old, and she is one grade less than me
2007-02-02 10:13:53 · update #1
hmm.. well that is hard for me to answer because i do not know how you guys tell eachother you love each other.. like if you are just like i love ya (as like a friend saying) or if you are meaningfully saying this.. because i do not know your conversations... and i do not know how she Seems to just want to be friends... but what i think is that if she wants to do something with you then that is a good sign... it is always a good thing to start out by getting to know eachother as really good friends first... and did She suggest to go as friends? because if so, i think she is just confused. you can either accept that for Right now she just wants to be friends.. since you have talked mainly just on myspace she just wants to get to know you as a friend in person now... so i would say to wait a little while.. keep flirting and talking and everything.. and keep getting together to do things. and then one time when you think you are both ready you should say do you want to go _____ as a date? and see how she responds. sorry i hope that kindof helped.. that is a tough one though.. since i do not know enough to fully help! i hope it all works out!!!! :) good luck! she is probably just confused right now, but probably wants the same thing as you!
2007-02-02 10:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, if she has just been sending you the "lets be friends" signals. I guess to really test the waters, at the movies you could sit next to her, and try to hold her hand, or put your arm around her... if she is uncomfortable with it, she will let you know. Or you could just ask her outright about it. Either way, if you don't want to be stuck in the "friends zone" then you need to let her know how you feel before someone else does... then you might miss your chance.
2007-02-02 18:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Charleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,
if u are cousins, you shouldnt do anything!but if you worded it wrong..
just tell her that you really like her and that you would want to be more than friends. if she feels the same way, then yipee fer you! but if she doesnt feel the same way.....then move on!!!!
2007-02-02 18:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by stevie_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she just wants to be friends there's nothing u can do about it. you could always tell her how you feel but there will be a chance it will ruin your friendship, its your call in the end.
2007-02-02 18:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Hawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants the same thing you want. Go ahead ad ask her at the movies. good luck!!
2007-02-02 18:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, tell her how u feel. try to get her alone wen u do or talk to her on the phone about it. tell her u like her and ask how she feels about u too.
2007-02-02 18:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by pinkallycat14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and ask her out and if she says no say OK and move on if she says yes then rock on
2007-02-02 18:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by car crash hearts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you go to the movies with her ask her out, because it might be your only one chance.
2007-02-02 18:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by anariel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a ring and propose to her......you will find out once and for and all how she feels.
2007-02-02 18:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by verywiseman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell!! Focus on school because you OBVIOUSLY need it.
2007-02-02 18:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by No Ma'am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋