sooo... there is this guy that i really like... when i see him he looks interested in me so a couple of days ago i asked him if he likes me and he said "idk" so i was like "do u think we can be together" and he said "idk... maybe... i just need a couple of days to think about it" and i then i said "so u dont know what u want" and he said "yes" its been 5 days now... so i wrote him today that i am waiting for an answer this weekend and if he does not do it then i will know that he does not want to be with me.
a lot of people tell me that i made a mistake when i wrote him today... but i learned from life that i should go with what my heart and brain say to do and not listen to other ppl... because that is the only way to get what i want and not asking myself "what if..."
sooo... what do u think he meant by " i need time to think about it"
and do u think he is going to answer me this weekend???
10x a lot!!! i love u ppl!!! {{{{{{}}}}}
2007-02-02 10:03:49 · 7 answers · asked by inlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you talk to him and let him get to know you a little better? He obviously can't make a decision because he probably doesn't know you that well. Giving ultimatums are just a bad idea. Most of the time, when you give people a time limit like that and force them to respond, they will think you are psycho and say no to you.
Think about it. How would you feel if some guy you hardly knew came up to you and asked you all of the questions you asked him? You would be taken aback, and when you are forced to answer, you would tell him NO. Same thing. You need to be more sensitive about other people's feelings.
2007-02-02 10:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I don't think you were wrong by writing him, and Secondly, he justs needs time, he may not know how to deal with it yet. But I think he will call you and everything is going to be fine! Don't worry bout it. good luck.
2007-02-02 18:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's pretty shy and really isn't sure of himself around girls. Make him feel comfortable by talking to him...... don't back him into a corner like a cat after a mouse....... he'll run from you for sure.
2007-02-02 18:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's there to think about? Either he likes you or he doesn't. I'm sorry but it sounds like he's looking for an easy way to let you down.
2007-02-02 18:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has to think about it then it's a no. There is someone out there who would jump at the chance to be with you.
Let him go.
2007-02-02 18:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nichole D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes shy and hes confused and scared.
2007-02-02 18:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, have you given it up to him yet? that's all he's waiting on!
2007-02-02 18:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋