a friend from school i like asked me to go out with her.i thought she said something else and i said no. she went with someone else.i was talking to her 5 days later and, out of nowhere, she tells me she's with the other guy. i immediately thought she was asking me for space. next day i don't talk to her at all. she asks me if i'm mad at her since i kinda ignored her all day. i actually am a bit mad. what should i do?
2007-02-02 09:56:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should make up your mind.
2007-02-02 09:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look buddy, No one is a mind reader and if you ask me, your being a bit complicated.That's usually the girls job to be like that.Just go up to her and explain what went wrong.There is never anything wrong with being honest with someone when it comes to a simple misunderstanding.Just let her know you mis interpreted what she asked you and that when you wanted to come and make it right you found out she was with this other guy and it kinda depressed you.Chances are she still likes you and wants to be with you.After all, She did ask you first didn't she??So, Be honest and be yourself.She will see you as a good guy and then you can put all these mind games behind and go have fun with her. If for some reason she doesn't change her mind and stays with this guy, at least she knows the truth and don't think your some stuck up jerk.
Good Luck!
2007-02-02 18:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and tell her the truth! Try this... Hey (girl's name), you know when you said you thought I was mad at you or ignoring you? Well I kinda was, because I had thought that when you had asked me out that one time that you had something else.. what I really wanted to say was yes... but now there is nothing either of us can do. What's done is done... then walk away. That might get a reaction out of her.
2007-02-02 18:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by kcdowling04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are YOU mad? You're the one who keeps misinterpreting what she says---you ask her out and "think she said something else" and say no, and you "thought she was asking...for space"---so basically what you're saying is that you don't listen to her, you jump to conclusions, and you don't even try to communicate.
If anyone has a reason to be mad or upset it's her---she asked you out and you said NO. She told you she was with someone else (you said no, remember?) and you ignored her all day. But it sounds like she's being really cool about things, because she didn't get mad at you for saying no, she was honest with you about her situation, and cared enough to ask if you're mad.
I think you screwed up! The only way to fix it is to own up and apologize, and just say, "I've made a mess of things, I would have liked to go out with you but I misunderstood, and I'd like things to be nice between us." Sounds like she's cool enough to cooperate!
2007-02-02 18:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Karen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one tell her that you didnt know what she was talking aout when you said no, and that you would have said yes, but you thought she said something else. Then tell her how you feel and that you are a little ticked off for how she did you. Next appolgize, then see if she would like to give you another try and ask her out.
2007-02-02 18:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Kevin Jonas♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its sounds to me like you are still a bit young, but here is the best advice i can give you. relationships are hard work, confusing but rewarding. anyways...if she is dating someone else you need to let it run its course... sit back and relax. young relationships end as quickly as they start, she will thank you for being supportive while she plays the field but dont make it obvious you are waiting for her. maintain a friendship but keep your eye out for another hottie that might be looking in your direction. girls are jealous creatures, if she sees you are talking to another girl its the quickest way to peak her interest. some rules on making a girl jealous; never rub her face in it or she will think you are a pig, in other words if you find another girl dont flaunt her around unless you have lost interest in the first one, just "hang out" with more girls, on a friendly level. good luck!
2007-02-02 18:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by missliz_1986 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hunny you will not have everything that u wont and haa tell me noe when you know that she is with other guy so what is happening to you now nothing you are sitting on yahoo maybe alittle sad she was honest to you from the begining and belive me for alittle mistake that you made and you wasnt she didnt want to forgive you what if you do abig wrong she doesnt love you she is just want to have somefun and you was the one that her eyes saw try to forget her with anything study more and be more work harding may be with days it will come to u like the movie leglly blond..sorry i just want u to laugh
2007-02-02 18:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by zeko94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you misunderstood her the first time when she asks you out, and you would love to take her out to the pictures. Tell her it is not because she is with someone else it's because you do like her.
2007-02-02 18:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her tell her what happened WAIT! until she finishes with this other guy then ask her out good luck!!! xxx luc of d irish xxx
2007-02-02 18:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lita F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice and don't be jealous, ur time will come. Tell her everything is cool between you guys.
2007-02-02 18:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her and tell her whatn happened girlz like honest guys and plus hot treat her like your girlfriend
2007-02-02 18:00:37 · answer #11 · answered by daddys_crazy_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋