Okay so tonight I'm going to the skating rink with a few friends and my BF, Chis. Last friday I got to couple skate with Chris. Thanks to my best friend Brittany, she got him undistracted from his friend Luke so we got to. But tonight Brittany will be with someone else and I really really really want to couple skate with Chris. I'm kinda nervous around him asking him that kind of stuff, and he doesn't want to look like a loser in front of all his little friends, which I understand. But when the time comes, how do I ask him if he wants to skate without freaking him out and if his friends are standing around I don't want to be embarassed in front of them. Help!
2007-02-02 09:51:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe if you either get him away from his friends (watch him - he's gotta head for the bathroom sometime or a drink) and ask them there or walk right up with confidence and just say, "HEY! You wanna skate? No need to explain - he'll see what kind of 'skate' it is. He'll either say 'yes' or 'no'. Don't be mad at him if he says no. Just look at him with a smile and say, 'That's cool.' and walk away. If you get all scared or teary-eyed - his friends will feed on that. But of course if he was any kind of a boyfriend he would tell his friends - to can it!! Good luck!
2007-02-02 09:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by curiousgeorgette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull him aside ahead of time and ask him. No one will be thinking about the couple skating yet, so you'll be able to catch him by himself without all of his little buddies. Tell him where to come find you when it's time for the couple's-skating.
2007-02-02 09:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him while he's not around his friends? Just say it in joking way like, "Chris, why don't we skate to the next song?" If he acts weird move on to the next guy girl! Good Luck!!
2007-02-02 09:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by MsKisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple hun, ask him, and make it clear that you mean ONLY him, for a race. This way you get him alone and are able to ask him to skate with you without embarassing him in front of his friends.
2007-02-02 10:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Leeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he be embarrassed? Aren't you two a couple? If anything, you should not be shy around your boyfriend.
Just tell him ahead of time if it really bothers you that you would like to spend some time alone with him during the evening(i.e.: a few round around the rink)
2007-02-02 09:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Travel_Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easy don't ask him.
just come skate with me please, or
come skate with me and i'll let you have me your way.
come skate with me and I'll cook for you for a week.
come skake with me and you will the best bj I ever done.
come skate with me or your will not ge any for a month.
come skate with me and i'll pay next time we go out.
come skate with me if you want
come sakte with I would really appreciated it you did.
come skate with I really like it and it would mean alot to me.
come skate with me don't be a pu sss y lol
but yeah ask him away from his friends.
2007-02-02 10:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by ybzcarlos1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say "hey, u were really good last time do u wanna do it again?" lol just say something like "u were the best at that i dont wanna dance w/ anyone else" or just be lyk "if u love me you'll do it" :)
2007-02-02 09:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Christine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe...why would he be angry at you? you're just skating!
2007-02-02 09:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cody F-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't ask you will never know
2007-02-02 09:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋