We have been together for 3 years. He was my man he luved me as much as i luved him. Last night he cheated on me w/ my bff. He went to the movies w/ her. I was w/ some other friends. What should i do? I caught them kissing!!!!!!!!!! About him?About her?
2007-02-02 09:31:22 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick to the curb.
2007-02-02 09:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute....u said "3 yrs" right? And this is the first time you've noticed this type of behavior? There are signs, and evidently, your girlfriend picked up on them. Seems to me that you have to make a choice of how you want your life to go on? Do you continue down the same road blind to the fact that this COULD have happened before, or do you (after having that kickaz z conversation with him, CZ u know u need to slap him for kissing your BF) trust and believe him when he says that was all and that it will never happen again? You are a WOMAN! You know what your inner most woman tells you to do, if you are concerned then this may not be the man for you, but if you know he is a man of his word, then stay and fight for what is right-fully yours........As for that friend......if she has not been in the picture for more than 10 yrs, TRUST ME! She ain't a TRUE friend, CZ she would have had your back a long time ago when your man was approaching her or vice verse...........Good luck!
2007-02-02 09:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Joy Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your bff before you do anything. If she avoids you then I would end that relationship, because no friend should betray another.. that's just not being a friend at all. As for your boyfriend of three years. Dump him. A man who has eyes for one women should never place his lips on another. And give him another chance!?! What for? To do it again? Don't give him the power hunny. If you let him feel he can get away with this he'll just do it again. I feel for you hun, but these jerks have got to go. Move on and put those losers behind you... NOW!
2007-02-02 09:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by kcdowling04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both. Why settle for someone like that?
Just caught him last night? What about any other time? I hope you realize that she isn't the first. It takes a lot of time to build up the nerve for a cheater to take "the other woman" out in public. Usually, it's a secret meeting first.
Cheaters are like smokers, they never "quit" , they always have the urge, and they either just don't have one for a while or get better at hiding the habit.
2007-02-02 09:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump them both. Nobody deserves to be treated that way. Go off and find some new friends and leave the boys alone for a bit ... let your heart heal first before jumping into anything serious! Sorry you lost two of the most important people to you. Hope you can work this out within yourself - you're beautiful ... and don't ever deserve to be treated with such disrespect. Boo to them!!
2007-02-02 09:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Was it just a kiss or more? If it was just a kiss, I'd consider giving him another chance. Of course I would question being friends with a girl who not only went out with my boyfriend, but kissed him too. I'm guessing you are very young--if you are under 18, I'd move on and spend some time dating, being single, and having a carefree time before settling down.
2007-02-02 09:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You caught your boyfriend cheating and you want to know if you should give him another chance or leave. Well are you prepare to give him another chance to cheat. Because that's exactly what you will be doing. He cheated with you best friend, did you give her another chance.
Your BF & BFF are both loser.
move on
2007-02-02 09:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***. simple as that. If hes gonna cheat on u with ur bff then hes a bad *** boyfriend. and what makes u think hes not gonna do that again. and for ur bestfriend tell her to go screw her self u dont need people like that in your life. im sure ur better then that. dump them both and go find a real man
2007-02-02 09:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg Punch them both!! Not only did he cheat but with your best friend! that's really wrong! Don't you ever think as yourself that low to forgive someone that went behind your back and betrayed your trust! forget them both, and also that Bit** is not your friend! move on and get a hotter, more respectful guy that will treat you good! DON'T FORGIVE THEM!! that would be your worse mistake!
2007-02-02 09:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better tell him you are better than that... which you are... there are lots of guys and you don't need to spend another second thinking about him.
Look around... see how many guys there are out there !!!
You will do just fine.
Your life and how good you are is not based on if you have a boyfriend.
2007-02-02 09:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by CTM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, on your friend...I definately wouldn't be her "bff" any more. On him, you know what they say...once a cheater, always a cheater. If he is just your boyfriend, then I wouldn't bother with him any more. 3 years is along time but apparently it doesn't mean that much to him. You can definately do better!!
2007-02-02 09:37:25 · answer #11 · answered by hollyrenee21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋