hiii im lindsey b im 9 and i want to no how come my brother doesnt even talk to me that much! cuz my brother is 15 and a half and he used to talk to me and want to do stuff with me sometimes but now he never even talks to me even and he is in a bad mood a lot like almost all the time and he always only talks to his friends and when ever i want to hang out with him he is always just always lke i dont want you to hang out with us like if i ask to do some thing with him and his friends. and he told me to stay out of his room and never go in there and he always yells at me now cuz like one time like 2 days ago i was watching a movie in his room and he came in and hes like lindsey stay out of my stuff and just get out of my life and he told me to stay away from him ubt i want to hang out with him cuz i like him and i want to be like him kinda but it seems like he hates me now so does u no what i can do to hang out with him?cuz im rly shy at school and only have 2 best friends! please help!
2007-02-02 09:07:03 · 11 answers · asked by lindsey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
don't worry, you will make other friends. if your brother does not change report him to authorities for his behavior. you deserve to be cared for by your brother anytime he does not satisfy your needs you should write him a letter telling him that you miss him.
2007-02-02 09:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by understandingyahoo27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lindsey - you are 9 and your brother is almost 16 yrs. old. Teenagers think about grown up things a lot and they seem to stay in their own little world away from the rest of us. They want to sleep and listen to music and skateboard (or other sports) and talk to girls. They want to make up silly sayings that they think are funny and play jokes on each other. He thinks it is not cool to have a little 9 yr. old sister hanging around. At this age they don't even want their parents around. They worry too much about what people think of them. Just be patient and one day he will turn back into a human being again.
2007-02-02 09:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first your brother doesn't hate you, he changing from a child to a young man. He's going though physical and emotional changes. Try to find him when he's in a nice mood and tell him that you miss hanging out with him and that you think he's a cool brother. If he still doesn't come around don't take it personally just try to be there for him when you can. As for finding more friends try joining a group that shares your hobbies, like join the girl scouts or find a teen center what ever you do don't "find friends" on the Internet they are not friends (just trust me).......PS have you told your parents about your brothers attitude they might have some ideas for you.
2007-02-02 09:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are such a sweetttt heart. This is what happens to all older brothers who have sisters your age, My two kids I will call the boy Bob and the Girl Sue, are 4 years apart. and they hated each other for the longest time. Then Sue wanted to hang around with Bob and his friends, Just like you. It did not happen. But now Bob is 19 and Sue is 16 and last night they both went out with all their friends together. Be 15 is really hard and when it is your turn to be that age you will better understand why your brother treats you this way. Hang in there kiddo, He loves you he is just wrapped up in his own teenage world for now. It will get better I promise.
Tracylyn S
2007-02-02 09:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because He's a teenager now. He thinks no one understands him except for his friends. He's all confused because that's what teenagers are like. But don't worry, he'll out grow it. He will one day realize how he's treating you and you two will be closer than ever. You will understand more when you're a teen. Just be patient. Maybe you should tell him how you feel. See if he will just talk to you for a minute. That might help. Just tell him that you love spending time with him. That you look up to him and that you really miss him.
2007-02-02 09:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is older than you Lindsey.... You are a little person to him.... One day this will change for him and you will be the one not wanting to hang out with him.... He is just now getting to know him self and molding him self.. And you are not in the picture... Just be nice and let him go his way, but let him know he hurts your feelings... Ask him to share just one day out of the week with you to play a game or something... And tell your mom and dad how you feel and have them talk to him.... parents can be a BIG Influence.... Good Luck Sweetie
2007-02-02 09:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by wva_butterfly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry--but this is pretty normal a lot of times. As we go into out teen years, we seem to think we are smarter than anyone else--even out parents. He is in his own little world. Just try to ignore his rude behavior but there is not much to be done about it. So sorry.
2007-02-02 09:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because he's a teenager, interested in other things--especially GIRLS!! I hate to say it, but he's probably not going to want to hang out until you're both a lot older.
Sorry if it hurts your feelings...it's just the way it is.
2007-02-02 09:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, let him know that you love him so much. If he still treats you the same you should stop talking to him too and he might apologize because he might miss your attention.
2007-02-02 09:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by A Girl With a Dream 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a teenager and he sees you as a kid as you both get older your relationship will get better. If you need to say something to your parents.
2007-02-02 09:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by Serenayowlerlove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋