Okay, on my birthday he told me HAPPY BIRTHDAY , but no gift. No i'm not a gold digger or nothing. Finally on XChristmas he told me marry christmas, but still no gift. We have been in the relationship for 7 months and on feb. 9 in will be 8. Should I leave or stay.
2007-02-02 09:05:20 · 15 answers · asked by lasia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he didn't know what to get you. or maybe he didn't have the money. I mean it is kinda odd, because most guys will get you something even if they don't think you'll like it because they know they'll look odd not getting you anything at odd. But at least he did say happy b-day and merry christmas. That shows that he didn't forget and you should probably give him another chance.
2007-02-02 09:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not blame you for feeling bad. He could have at least given you a nice card or something. Sounds as if he does not consider you important enough for even a gift. Could be in his family they do not celebrate by giving gifts? Tell him how hurt you feel that he did not even think enough of you by making your b day special by giving you a gift, let him know it made you feel bad. My bet is he will accuse you of being greedy. If he does, then this will be an indication of him not caring about how you feel. Then let him go. Good luck to you! Oh by the way, happy belated!
2007-02-02 09:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love sayd alot of things but i never really got gifts from my boyfriends. They never could afford them. But to tell you the truth I couldn't afford gifts either. If I was you I wouldnt expect any and you wont be dissapointed. i am married and my husband and I dont give eachother gifts, nor did we when we were just dating. We really never had a real date. A gift doesnt prove your love. Actions do
2007-02-02 09:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by xxmilitarychikxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally leave. Come on you have been dating almost eight months now and he still hasn't gotten you a gift not even for your birthday.
2007-02-02 09:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are. I'm guessing you're under 20. In which case, stay - but tell him that you're wondering why he didn't get you a present for Christmas or your birthday, and tell him that it hurt you.
But no, this guy does not love you, at all. I'm sorry, but he's not a keeper.
2007-02-02 09:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Peach S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gift giving probably just isn't one of his strong suits. If you have a good relationship all around, then stick with it. Communication is the key. Have you gotten him anything? Have you let him know that you noticed?
2007-02-02 09:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by peliglad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is cheap, that he does not want to spend any on any body else but him self! I would leave him, find someone that really likes doing nice things for you!
2007-02-02 09:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the way he treats you all the time whether hes with his freinds or just you. does he treat you with respect? actions speak louder than words, so it depends more if he does things that make you fell special than just saying them. Good luck!plus! does he have a job? why not talk to him about it? if your close, it should be simple!
2007-02-02 09:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should totally leave. if he dont buy you a gift he sucks.
2007-02-02 09:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bubblez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should leave him. if you love him and he loves you then you shouldnt care about gifts
2007-02-02 09:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by dot_ridr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋