my girlfriend would freak out if she knew i went there, and i dont wanna tell her. my friends bought me lap dance , is that considered cheating
2007-02-02 09:01:49 · 63 answers · asked by bbb b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. she would freak out, so yes. cheating.
2007-02-02 09:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 6⤊ 7⤋
It's not really cheating. It's more like breaking the trust. You know how she feels about this but yet you still do it. That shows her that you are a liar which means she can't trust anything you say or do. It also means you don't care about her or her feelings. Girls are very jealous. She probably feels like she doesn't look good to you and is not good enough for you if you have to go look at other naked girls. It makes her feel really bad about herself and her relationship with you. If I were you I wouldn't tell her but from now on maybe you should consider staying away from the strip clubs and concentrating on your girlfriend. If she finds out you may lose her.
2007-02-02 11:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's cheating. If your girlfriend would freak out, and you knew that, you should have known better than to allow the lap dance, and should even have had more sense than to go to a strip club in the first place.
2007-02-02 09:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Susan B 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You know, my BF and I went to a strip club together once. I had never been so we bought some beer and took off. I had a great time, I got lap dances from every broad in there. So then a few months later we went again. I went to the restroom and when I came back out, he was getting a dance by a girl who had just had a baby. That is when it dawned on me that my man was PAYING money that could go towards bills, or lengerie for me, to have her T&A in HIS face. She would never give him anything. That moment I got so pissed off at what was going on and the reality of things that he picked a fight with me and we fought all the way home. I have never forgotten the things he said to me that night, and you know what? He said them because we had gone to the strip club, and he had been turned on my other women. All of a sudden, I wasn't so damn great. Never again, bravo. Don't tell her you did it, and don't ever do it again.
Stripping, and porno are prostitution as well because it is selling sex.
2007-02-02 09:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry. I'm not sure. If I were your girlfriend I'd be pretty ticked and upset, but I'm not sure what her feelings are about it. Just make sure you don't pick up a relationship or have a "fling" with anyone at the strip club because then it would be considered major cheating. I hope this can help you.
Good Luck
Forest
2007-02-02 09:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Forest 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok think about this how would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot? What if she went to a strip club and had lap dance? How would you feel? Do you think shes cheating if she got a lap dance? I've had a lap by a male stripper and I can tell you that's as close to sex as you can get with your clothes on. I'm thinking that you're feeling guilty and want yahoo answers to make you feel better...........................
2007-02-02 09:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♀_♥₤ẩϋřą♥_♂ 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say so. Honestly, I would probably be more upset if you were having intimate phone conversations with her that I didn't know about than a lap dance. However, everyone has their own definition of cheating. Do you love this girl who gave you the lap dance? Most likely no, so I wouldn't blow a good thing by telling her. Don't let it happen again, but tell her next time if it does.
2007-02-02 09:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by This is me! 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you are lying about to her, then it is like cheating. If you are honest with her and offer to bring her along then it would be cool. I went to a strip club with my husband and got more lap dances than he did!!
2007-02-02 09:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by his temptress 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a betrayal based on your agreement with her. If you both agreed no strip clubs then you betrayed your agreement. In my relationship it would not be cheating at that point. It is a personal compromise.
2007-02-02 09:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would normally say NO, however, if you're not telling her, you're in essence lying. Lying is a form of cheating. Just tell her, and deal with it. If a lap dance means more to you then she does, I feel bad for your girlfriend. ~~~~
2007-02-02 09:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That depends on your girlfriend and your actions at the Strip Club. If she is not comfortable with you going ask if she will go with you. It could be a lot of fun!
2007-02-02 09:05:30 · answer #11 · answered by Carrie S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋