why do i always end up getting hurt even when i'm doing my part to make the relationship work?, what am i doing wrong?. I am frustrated because just when i think i've found the right guy something bad happens.
I don't cheat
don't flirt
I'm a good girl
I love him with all my heart
I do basically everything a girlfriend is suppose to do but i still end up unhappy. It's useless i might as well just start dating girls or something because i don't know what else to do. Please help me. There is one thing i've noticed about myself, i always go for the really cute and sexy guys but not all cute guys are "cheaters" please tell me what to do.
2007-02-02 08:51:17 · 15 answers · asked by kimmie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Figure out something else that you want in a guy other than them just being cute and sexy. Look for a guy who has a personality that you would like for him to have~Good Luck
2007-02-02 09:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends what 'something bad' is, but I don't think your taste in guys has anything to do with it as 'sexy' and 'cute' is diff for everyone. Maybe u should talk to ur exes and jus say ur not trying to get back together, u jus want to kno what u did wrong, etc. Then u might be able to find a pattern. I have a friend with the same prob and as I can see how she acts wit her bfs I can tell what she was doing wrong-she was being really clingy and not giving the guy space. It was the same wit all her relationships. So mayb u could ask a frend to see what they think bout how ur acting round ur guy? Hope u work it out:)
2007-02-02 16:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me I am in the same boat as you. I am 29 and he is 32 we have been dating for the past 6 years and last night he broke my heart by saying he doesn't want to be with me anymore. What I have been told is a relationship is 100-100 all parties are equal. If you find yourself doing more then him to make the relationship last, then he isn't fully into it. Part of me wants to work things out cause we have been through so much, but I have to take my own advise and realize there is someone out there who is willing to treat me like I deserve to be treated. Don't give up, you are still young......... there is definately one special guy for you. Just remember you have to go through the bad ones to find the right one.
I hope I helped
2007-02-02 17:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeahhh... its that nice guys(make that gals!) finish last thing.. haha. I know how you feel for sure. Us nice girls never get the appreciation we deserve. haha. anyway... maybe you could just start being a ***** or something. its like guys always go for them. i'm only kidding. I'd say just take each heartbreak as a lesson learned and definitely realize that its HIS loss. Later on down the road he'll probably realize how good of a girlfriend you really were. but boys are just dumb sometimes and cant see it.. all i can say is. just keep in mind that you're worth a lot and deserve someone that can appreciate all the goodness you have to give. :)
2007-02-02 16:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by chelsie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I think if it is true love then it will be easy and not hurtfull. If you believe in God then some people say that God's testing your love betweenyou two to make sure your right for each other. Otherwise I just think don't givv your whole heart to someone unless you are certain to give it to them that way if love turns the wrong way it'll be less painful. Plus if you are being hurt by someone else and your not hurting them then they don't desreve you because you're too good for him. Just wait true love will come by.
2007-02-02 16:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by dm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becaus ewe have almost two of everything (lungs, legs, feet,)
both only one heart.
You fell down more than once when you were learning to walk right?
You just haven't found Mr. Right.
Sometimes you need to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when you finally meet the right person, you will know.
No man is worth your tears and the only one who is will never make you cry.
2007-02-02 17:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amm well I guess you need to work on going after guys. You know, know them first before you jump on them. I mean there are plenty of good guys including me who would love a girl like you. Soo just try a little harder to find a better man soo you dont get hurt. I know how it feels when you do everything right but things keep on going wrong its frustrating and hurts like a ***** but hey thats life.
take care
2007-02-02 16:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm asking everyone to bring it back to where it's suppose to be. The Heart! The Old Ticker. The purpose of being in Love. The source of your Romance. The center of your Unverse. If you take the time to listen to YOUR HEART? You'll see that it's telling you when it's the right time. Just wait, and listen.
2007-02-02 16:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ups and downs in every relationship. You are a good person and deserve to be treated well. Perhaps you are trying to hard. Just be yourself and enjoy your partner, if its meant to be, it will work itself out. Don't get discouraged, we have all been throught the same thing. Take care Heather
2007-02-02 16:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad things happen to good people. It sucks and it is not fair, but it is life. Pray about it and stop looking. The right one will show up one day when you least expect it and treat you how you should be treated.
Hang in there and Good luck!
2007-02-02 16:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋