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But at the same time tell you you that you are jumping into things too fast.
For the first time in my life something feels really right. I want to jump in headfirst and I don't have the feeling like I am just going to get hurt. For once I want to love like I've never been hurt. Am I being nieve?

2007-02-02 08:42:19 · 19 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

no thats normal.....i want to be loved like ive never been hurt but i no its not gonna happen because whhen i got hurt i got scared

2007-02-02 08:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by K-LA 3 · 0 0

Its a hard call. Only your hearth can give u the right answer to your question. See the way i look at it is, that if you don't "love like you've never been hurt" then you can miss out on something truly great and if you jump in too fast then you might get hurt. But i think is better to try then to live regreting the things you didn't do.

2007-02-02 08:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by mair 1 · 0 0

Nothing to do with it
"Love like you've never been hurt" mean Trust him and don't be afraid to give him your heart.
Often when a breakup occurs, a woman (or man) is afraid of getting too close (for fear of having their heart broken again).

When you fall off the horse get right back up and ride (No Fear).
You cannot have a relationship if your heart is closed, you need to let him/her in.
Jump in and go with your emotions. Even if it doesn't work out you tried. If you don't jump in with your heart it will never work out.

2007-02-02 08:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0 0

Life is full of what if's and regrets why would you let another person sour your future relationships. Everyone deserves a fair chance. Besides your supposed to learn fom your relationships and figure out what went wrong and improve on that and not hold on to bitter feeling you may have had for a past relationship. I say jump right in and show that person the real you, and not you behind a wall.

2007-02-02 08:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by gringa 1 · 0 0

"Love like you've never been hurt." Funny you should ask that because just yesterday I was thinking about that same saying. My findings, it's impossible to do! If you've been hurt, you can't love like you haven't been because you have. Hello! But...the good news is that you're going back in for more and not cheating yourself out of a good thing because of a lack of trust. Go for it! If it's too soon, you'll figure that out for yourself. You don't need anyone to tell you! Besides, they don't know any more than you do if not less so you follow your heart and enjoy yourself!

2007-02-02 08:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0 0

Actually. I think being where you're at is for some a tough spot to find. its much easier to just be on permanent look out and put up walls and never put yourself out there. and It may seem like "loving like you've never been hurt" is a reckless way of thinking... but its the way to live. being cautious is always important but like they say.. to really get involved into something you can't hold back. it may hurt like hell if it doesn't work out. but at least you took the effort to maybe have the best thing you never would've been able to have otherwise! so take it easy.. but don't hold yourself back. live your life.

2007-02-02 08:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by chelsie r 2 · 0 0

Love like you have never been hurt means don't hold out on someone just because you have been wronged by others. Realize that people will treat you in different ways and look for someone who treats you good. Then don't treat them like they are going to hurt you, but connect with them and be open.

Don't rush things means don't throw yourself at someone, but truly get to know them.

2007-02-02 08:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by peliglad 2 · 0 0

People say that to tell you that one should love no matter if you've been hurt in the past. Forget about that hurt. Also, that even if you love, you may be hurt again, but it's always worth that risk.

2007-02-02 08:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0 0

Nope, good luck because after someone gets hurt they can never go back to just jumping in and not thinking

2007-02-02 08:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by jojonjesse 3 · 0 0

No, not at all. I think there is a time for everything, and I believe that. Most would say don't jump into it because of what happened in the past, but your attitude is the right one, and I commend you for it.

2007-02-02 08:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 2 0

I am afraid so, we all want to jump in head first but that is when you get hurt, be a little cautious know what you are getting into first.

2007-02-02 08:49:18 · answer #11 · answered by lara 5 · 0 0

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